Okay so theres this shy girl that I really like. We went to prom but she was so shy she couldn't even ask me (her friend did it for her). So anyway we've talked almost everyday since then and hang out a lot. My question is how do i tell if shes still in to me? I mean she has alot of guy friends and I don't know if she likes anyone of them more. And how should I ask her out once I know?
2006-09-12 21:29:40 · 14 answers · asked by takeiteasybrah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has a lot of guys friends, but she had to ask her friend to ask you to prom!!!
She likes you man - she chose YOU!!!
2006-09-12 21:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) She had her friend ask YOU to go to the prom.
2) She still enjoys talking to YOU
3) She enjoys being around YOU.
Cmon man she`s wondering whats wrong with her as you ain`t asking her out. Just say " hey how about us hanging out together on Saturday just the two of us" at the mall, the coffee shop somewhere where you can have time to talk together and find out how much you really like each other but be comfortable that there are others about if you need other company. Or if this is a bit frightening ask her " come out with me" and other friends, emphasising the ME .
2006-09-13 04:43:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she asked you to prom so she really must like you and you say that you all talk almost everyday and hang out alot. Trust me, It is obvious that she does because then she wouldnt be spending so much time with you. We she might have alot of guy friends but alot of girls do but the question is if she hangs out with them alot which i am guessing no because she spends alot of time with you. SO uhm yeah she likes you...so I think you should make the move and talk to her. You'll never know if you dont...because she is shy..she prolly thinks u dont like her... so I think you should:) Goodluck!..
2006-09-13 04:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by aggieprincess4u08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, ask her out on a date. Someplace quiet where you guys can talk. Arrange a picnic or something. Then tell her that you got something to tell and that she is not obliged to reflect the feelings back to you. Then tell her honestly how you feel about her and that you would like the relationship to go a bit further. If she feels the same way towards you then you can pop the question matey. Be sure not to pressurise her. If she just want to be friends, don't sweat as friends are bound to end up as lovers. Best of luck matey.
2006-09-13 04:34:08 · answer #4 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she is not shy mate, a girl who is shy by nature wouldnt have alot of male friends. She is shy with you, y? i guess the answer is "Romance is in the air", she likes you alot tht she doesnt dare to ask you personally yet she told her friend to ask it for her.
You should talk to her openly and clearly, afterall we males are suppossed to do tht, the chicks love it, they love it bcs no matter what the dominant and the protector of the females are males. From wht you have written, i guess your coast is clear, you'll get her mate, you just have to be frank and talk wht your heart wants her to listen.
"Love is in the air" Goodluck Buddy...
2006-09-13 04:37:20 · answer #5 · answered by Jendralus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you two are too young for some serious relationship. if you like her a lot try and befriend her. as you said she has other guy friends. so she is enjoying her friendship with all this guys and dont worry she is just friends with them. your heart and hers will soon dictate the next step but not for you to be obvious about it otherwise she might avoid you forever. so if you like her to be your future true love, be very careful in dealing with her. piece of advice. show you are a true gentleman to her and be good to her friends too. thats how you can win her heart you know. just enjoy her company while she allow you to. have fun and try to focus on your studies more so to impress on her you are ahead than others and she will know for sure. have a great friendship and take care brother.
2006-09-13 04:53:23 · answer #6 · answered by margarette 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she did go to the prom with her that is a good start. start by asking her and her girlfriend out for cokes or icecream, then see if she starts getting used to you where you can take her on a real date. good luck,
2006-09-13 04:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her, theres no way any of u guys is going to get anywhere without letting eachother know so talk
2006-09-13 04:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by titties 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the rags out,man!
2006-09-13 04:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bet u should, in fact you should have done so long back . Go for it now
2006-09-13 04:33:08 · answer #10 · answered by bash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋