a girl i really like, came up to me and started chattin in a bar - she asks for my number etc,etc then for the next couple of weeks we txt and she sees me out in town some nites and she comes to talk to me. i get msgs saying 'it was really nice to see you blah blah blah' but wen i actually pluck uo the courage to ask to do sumthing i neva seem to get a response...is she just messing me around??? i think she is,but i really like her!!!! lol
2006-09-12 21:25:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her in person. Worst thing she can say is no and at the end of the day at least you'll know. Also don't focus on just one girl perhaps if she saw you chatting to other women it might give her the push to go out with you if she thinks you might get taken off the market by someone else. Women. Gotta luv em.
2006-09-12 21:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by Harv S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the girl might just wanna fool around a little but do not get sucked into trusting her too quick cause you dun wanna get ur heart smashed by her. Give it a lil time and ask her out again, if she still refuses then she's playing with you, only calling you out when she needs you so back off man.
2006-09-13 04:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by Abel Blessed Lim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I not sure if Im the right person for this I get played by girls so much lol... so wateva i say it might be smart to do the opposite hahaha... Me Id tell her wen I ever did get mi girl Persistence was key and everything we talkd about we had in common I ddnt wnt to wake up in 20 yrs and have nuthn to say... make sure its not only face value
2006-09-13 04:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by CoNsTaNt_FaNaTiC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is messign with you, maybe she is just having fun and being friendly, and maybe you pluck your courage too late every time?
if she is messing about she will give you no answer every time you make an advance;
if she is just friendly she wouldn't know what to say;
if it's the "wrong timing" issue, start replying to her messages in a different way "would be nice to go out with you" or "go to the cinema, you and me?" or something better than that. if you get crap to that, nothing to wonder about then.
2006-09-13 08:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something to change the way you are acting toward her. maybe she will notice and decide she wants to see you alone. Like get some real good smelling cologne, get her a rose,give her a written invitation to a movie or to dinner, it may be weird but it may get her attention as being different. good luck.
2006-09-13 04:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's shy, take the reigns and call her on her sh!t. Call her phone number and tell her "Hey you're allways giving me mixed signals. I'm into you and I want to take you out next weekend.." What could be worse than not knowing?
2006-09-13 04:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda sounds like she's playin games with ya. Maybe next time you run into her at the bar ask her why she keeps turning you down.
2006-09-13 04:28:15 · answer #7 · answered by laker_girl85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might just be playing "hard to get" try not calling for a few days and see what happens. Good luck my friend. I think you're in for a ride.
2006-09-13 04:28:47 · answer #8 · answered by zekemilli4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can either up the ante by going someplace more personal and sexy, you can ask her how she feels or you can just wait for her to make the first move. I don't recommend the last one too highly.
2006-09-13 06:46:00 · answer #9 · answered by Richard C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont get it - have you actually asked her out? If so what did she say?
No answer at all is a no... but all the other signs youre getting point to yes.
2006-09-13 04:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋