there this boy i went out with 2 years ago and now he wants to go back out with me but thats great and all but he cheated on me and i found out beacause i caught with another girl
but should i give another chance??
when we broke up he asked me if we could be friends like how we were before we started to go out, and i said no but i wanna know if we can because of what he did we dont even speak to each other any more so should i give him another chance to be my friend?
2006-09-12 21:20:47 · 14 answers · asked by ♥♥Kuluma♥♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is up to you whether you want to continue to be friend with him or not. Since you caught him being unsincere with you. The room of doubt will always there for you. Even if he meant only to be friend with, you will not trust him like before. It will be better if you let him grow his relationship with his new friend.
2006-09-12 22:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by Rijied 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness is very important.If you are contemplating getting back with him...start out as friends first. Learn what hes all about, and if thats what you want to get into...keep your guard up...you dont want to be taken for a fool but at the same time second chances are definitely worth giving...A lot could have changed with him in the past couple of years, or maybe he just thinks it did, or knows nothing has changed...you get to decide...just be cautious for your own sake...be yourself and see if he appreciates it...youll soon notice as a friend whether or not he can be trusted in the boyfriend department...Its always good to have a good friend though!
2006-09-13 04:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by Patience 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until and unlesss both of you have no relationship other than friendship you can even now give him a chance to be your friend. If it was a good friendhip, never allow it to die. But at the same time you have the right to choose whether to continue or not?
2006-09-13 04:33:09 · answer #3 · answered by Jithu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say give him another chance to be your friends (I perfectly understand why didn't want to, back then), but I wouldn't take him back as a boyfriend. Of course, it's your choice and you know him better; that's just what I would do.
2006-09-13 04:23:44 · answer #4 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't the person you dated several years ago. You can't decide to be his friend without getting to know him again. Regardless he can't be your friend because of his external genitalia. Men do not form friendships with females unless it is not possible to have sex with them. It's been established that that posibility exists so he will allways see you as a former lover rather than a friend.
2006-09-13 04:27:06 · answer #5 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see the thing is u wounldnt have ask this question in first place if u dint want to give him another chance
so y u so confuse
give him another chance and just keep it slow this time and thats it
no harm in givin it another shot just be caution
2006-09-13 04:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i think is that ur confused!!!1st u make up ur mind,what u want out of him,is it just friendship or it bcoz u love him!!!If u can 4give him 4 what he did,& u really think its the right thing 2 do.Just ask him...If not u both go ur separate ways...Maybe its 4 the best
2006-09-13 04:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by Drift King 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you can give him a chance to be your friend again but you can not give another chance to yourself to be ditched by him again. If you feel good and happy to be ditched once again by the same person, then you can.
2006-09-13 04:28:27 · answer #8 · answered by Biss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be cautious either way. my answer is simple- if you feel that being his friend again outweighs the potential hurt you may suffer again, then do it. follow your heart. if you have to make a pro's and con's list. write down things that he brings that you like or make you happy. then of course you have to write on the cons like that he may not be trustworthy. i think that trust is very important in any kind of relationship, which is why i told you to be cautious. the list should make it more clear to you if there and more positives than negatives in being his friend again. good luck......
2006-09-13 04:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by April H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes give him a chance to be friends again.
2006-09-13 04:31:11 · answer #10 · answered by takeiteasybrah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋