children will see these stupid act and try that on, later these couples might get caught by feelings of depression, etc... then why they do so? is it release of sexual energy through a no-where land?
2006-09-12 20:58:59 · 12 answers · asked by mammus007 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
People do it to try to "add life" to their marriages. But I think that ultimately it can cause resentment and jealousy. Plus, as you pointed out, it's not a good environment for kids, they don't need to see that. If you need other partners then you shouldn't be married, it's as simple as that to me.
2006-09-12 21:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by nimo22 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have experienced threesomes (2 males, 1 female) with both my ex-husband (9 years) and my current husband (3 years). Both of them enjoyed it in the moment, but they were insecure about it later even though it was their idea. (More guys are into that than you'd think, even though they have no physical contact with the other male.) They were interesting experiences and in some ways it brought my relationships with both of them closer but I would never make something like that my lifestyle. In a lot of ways it causes problems. It never made a huge impact on either of these relationships negatively but that's also because I wouldn't allow that to happen. Some people get caught up in it and that can cause issues. In both relationships (my former and current), the "other guy" tried to pursue a relationship with me outside the threesome scenario. In neither case was it a one-time thing but it was never an all-the-time thing, either. And doing it in such a way that the children know what is going on (in ANY capacity) is unacceptable. Children are more perceptive than people think. If you're going to play adult games, they should involve adults ONLY. If you have children, you need to make sure that it doesn't spill over into their lives. If you can't keep that from happening then don't do it. Children see enough stuff like that on TV as it is. They don't need more bad role models.
2006-09-12 21:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When people are involved sexually with each other, emotional bonding happens. And when love and attachment enters the swinging scene, complications follow, sometimes resulting in a breakup of the original partnership.
Although there may be less anger in such a situation because of mutual agreement origins, it illustrates that when sexual activity ventures outside of a dual partnership, the risks and emotional stakes are still high.
2006-09-12 21:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It cannot be healthy at all. If people want all the pleasure for that moment, then they will get clogged with pains & sorrows at a later age & their lifespan drastically would come down. Such people have a miserable ending. We are social animals. We live in groups (family). Our families are driven by trust . We need one & another in times of pain. If we start cheating our own, we get kicked out of our family & u meet with a sad ending. Such people deserve that also.
2006-09-12 21:26:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've known "swingers" that have had absolutely disastrous lives. I think the practice is in conflict with some primary human drives, and will ultimately end in a horrible experience.
I like sex as much as the next man-probably more. But I've never met a long-term swinger couple that were happy.
2006-09-12 21:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by Jerry 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This stupid things should at once be stoped. Take a bold step and warn the couples. Do not allow the children to see them.
2006-09-12 23:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by eitemad_eitemad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's selfishness and lack of loyalty, morality, faithfulness, standards, and respect for the sacred vows they made together.
I've known many who have done this, and it truly SCREWED UP THEIR KIDS and they ALL ended in divorce and illegitimate children!!
2006-09-13 00:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i see some people can't mind their own business. By the way, I believe wearing pink underwear is immoral, so make sure you don't do that.
2006-09-12 23:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by K M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has a risk if the other person is with a VD.
Also it is immoral.
2006-09-12 21:03:39 · answer #9 · answered by SKG R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't judge other peoples lives but I wouldn't live that way to me it's nasty
2006-09-12 21:10:40 · answer #10 · answered by annie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋