is mind a deciding matter in a womens sexual act with her partner? since race, size, colour,and nothing is needed by women during perfect sex, what does she actually need in bed?
2006-09-12 20:55:18 · 4 answers · asked by mammus007 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
She needs a loving, respectful partner.
2006-09-12 21:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by sheila 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every woman needs something different. Maybe you'd have better luck if you stopped thinking of women as all the same, with one unified need or goal. And I don't know where you got the idea that size and race and all that has nothing to do with perfect sex. Maybe some women lied to you but I won't. Race is important only in terms of attraction. Some women are attracted to black guys. Some are attracted to Hispanic guys. Some are attracted to white guys. The list goes on. Race has nothing to do with sexual performance but SATISFACTION depends on how turned on you are and THAT has a lot to do with how attracted you are to your partner. And size DOES matter. I'm sorry, but it does. You just can't be happy with one that is too small. Or too big, I might add. Knowing how to use it matters, too. Some guys think they know how to use it but in reality they don't. Creativity matters, also. So does involvement; no one wants to have sex with a robot. Get involved. Participate. Relax. Use of hands is important. Reciprocation is important, too: if you want a woman to go down on you, be prepared to respond in kind. Nobody likes to feel like they've been taken advantage of. Most guys are in and out. There's no involvement, no talking, no CONNECTION. To me, the best, hottest sex is with a guy who makes me feel that he's really THERE. That he's involved, that he knows what is going on and is paying attention, not off in his own little world just pounding away with his body. A lot of females don't really care about sex one way or the other but I do. I know what I want and I'm not above teaching a man. That's another thing: don't be afraid to ask her if it's what she likes or what she wants. And don't be scared to ask for suggestions or take a little bit of help. It's all for the greater good. Realize it's not just about you. Men ask this particular question to get women to sleep with them. They want to know what women want so they can get more sex. Therefore, it still won't be any good because you're looking at it wrong. Ask because you really want to please the woman. You please her and she'll please you, guaranteed. If my guy gives me what I want, I give him WHATEVER he wants. Believe me, it's an incetive that has made him a MUCH better lover. Just some advice.
2006-09-13 04:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely akind heart,understandyour partner
2006-09-13 04:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her own faithful, loyal husband.
2006-09-13 07:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋