It has seemly as if she is using Secret power to control me all over I hate her but once seen her I could't control from being engaging series of wrough and blind loves with her, Please help me oh!!
2006-09-12 20:41:30 · 14 answers · asked by oyetimtop 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you have low self esteem and are unexperienced in relationships.
What you really need to do is go out and flirt with other girls, and eventually you'll realize that your in love with attractive women in general, and you won't have to deal with the succubus. So tommorrow, get up out of bed, get some coffee at a place with attractive women, and give them a smile. They'll smile back, and you'll be in a better place, and a better position to get over your previous girlfriend.
Your second option is to be evil and manipulative as the girl your talking about and secretly or un-secretively punish her for using your love against you. This involves spreading nasty but true secrets about her, telling anyone who might pontentially sleep with her that your banging her, hiding her car keys when she stays over so she can't leave and go to work.
In general turn anything mean she does to you against her so there is no benefit to manipulating you. This way you'll hate her alot less in the long run, and you'll help out the world in general by teaching her not to be manipulative.
The first method is better, but if you really like her, the second method will work as well. Be empowered!
2006-09-12 20:59:41 · answer #1 · answered by Greg S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. The sense of powerlesness can be frusrating. This attraction is usually embedded from the past. Every other relationship might seem like a comparison. Emotions are sometimes like a house of cards, things come tumbling down when you least expect it to. Telling yourself that you've been snared may not help, 'cos the heart and the mind dont feel the same way.
You need to physically move away. Find yourself a nice girl and live a loved life. That will help you get over this blind love.
2006-09-12 21:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by daffythecoolestduck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there's some really strange things happening around you and that female.
If you HATE her, why will you be in love with her?
I don't really get the point...
just do what your feelings tell you
it's always the best way... for me...
and maybe it works with you.
2006-09-12 20:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by ~Millie~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not love, boy.
It is lust that you have.
Well it is your decision and no one can control you except yourself! So don't blame anyone else. Whatever it is, you have to be responsible for your actions and behaviour.
2006-09-12 21:25:00 · answer #4 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously, go and jerk off, i mean after that, you just feel like.. whatever you know.. LMAO!! seriously though, it's part of us human, i mean if you want to destroy it, you wouldn't have any hormones in the first place. It's what make us beautiful and unique :)
2006-09-12 20:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by Tank D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really feel something and you know its for real, it would be really difficult to stay away from that person... but if you really want to then keep yourself busy to keep your mind off that person... best advice i can think of just follow what your heart tells you... you'll never know...
2006-09-12 20:46:30 · answer #6 · answered by Marcus C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not look at her, do not talk to her, and tell her you want to be left alone. It is that easy, she will leave you alone, if you tell her you do not like her. Tell her you have someone else in your life.
2006-09-12 20:42:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its impossible to make sense out of something that makes no sense
2006-09-12 21:18:05 · answer #8 · answered by sylvianv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life. Really.
2006-09-12 20:44:01 · answer #9 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make a decision and stick with it ? That's a problem.
2006-09-12 20:48:41 · answer #10 · answered by Mira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋