At 13 should i have a boyfriend?i'm in 8th class.
he is in 9th.we have been friends for the last 2 yrs.he proposed me last week & i agreed.
2006-09-12 20:40:05 · 48 answers · asked by hautegirl93 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Isn't wrong to have a boyfriend. I think it's a little early for the physical aspects of a relationship, but dating is fun. Just make sure he doesn't press you into doing things you're not sure about.
Guys, I think she means he proposed that they should be going out together, not that they should marry! Take it easy on her. (Of course, I may be wrong, but she asks about having a boyfriend, not a husband).
2006-09-12 20:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't be having a boyfriend...you're too young. Where are you going to go with this relationship...dating, kissing and then sex?! Is that the way you want things to go with you at this age? Do you think sex is all fun and games, what about teenage pregnancies and HIV and STDs etc. Can you handle that? Because all those things come with being in a relationship with a boy. Sooner or later he's going to pressurize you into having sex with him and then you'll feel obliged because he's your boyfriend and you're 'supposed' to be doing this with each other. Wait till you're 18 to get into relationships, that way if you do get pregnant at least you have raise the baby like a mature adult, not while being a kid yourself. Concentrate on your studies and make something out of yourself...not just someone's girlfriend.
2006-09-12 20:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the rush? Although it is okay to have a boyfriend at your age, I would still think that a preferrable thing for you to do is focus your attention to your studies. At your age, entering into relationships like this, I think, will only complicate your life. First, it's not appropriate for your age and you will encounter remarks or reactions from other people that you may misinterpret and forever will haunt you. Second, if you accidentally get pregnant, you have to take care of the baby, which is no joke. Imagine, everyday you have to take care of your baby, you will no longer have time for yourself, to do what you want to do and at a young age you sure have a lot of things you want to do, like shopping, sleeping late or getting up late and lazy. With a baby around, you can't do that. Third, if you don't finish college and get a degree, what kind of life are you gonna have? You will be hard up and you barely have enough money to buy food for your baby, much more buy stuff for yourself. If I were you, I would ask my mom or dad or grandma for advice since they know what's best for you... and you should listen to them.
2006-09-12 20:55:49 · answer #3 · answered by gringo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't worry too much about the right and wrong so much as how you feel about him. If you love him knock yourself out. You might end up hurt but you're going to feel great puppydogging with him and it's an important part of your developement to have relationships like this at your age. Keep in mind that sex is something you should avoid until you're an adult and you'll be just fine.
2006-09-12 20:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by W0LF 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sudarshan this is a toally wrong concept at your age. Why can't he be your friend instead of a boy friend. Today he proposes, tomorrow he will hold your hand, then goes to the shoulder, small flying kiss, then the hug and kiss and then..................... You will get into trouble. Your studies will be disturbed and your parents would be disturbed too.
All said and done, this is what is happening in the schools today, a culture borrowed from the west.
2006-09-12 22:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all look u r 13 u really dont know about what is love ? i can bet on this the liking of ur towards him is that u r becoming mature and these things happen to all people of this age it is harmone effect
my advice to u is that just remain her friend because u r not mature enough to have boy friend and if anything goes wrong in this age u will be blaming ur self which would not be good
2006-09-12 20:51:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did he propose? to be boyfriend and girlfriend? I think you should just tell him that you want to remain friends because right now school is more important then having a boyfriend. Tell him that you can still get together and do things together, like movies, walks etc.
2006-09-12 20:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by wickedly_funny66 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
8th grade... same as me
in MY opinion, I don't think it's wrong but i think it's work time now and you should pay more attention in the academic and all that stuff... i don't think it's really good to have a boyfriend
but if you two really like each other... it's alright
i'll say it's fine...
proposal? what kind?
a "can you marry me 10 years later?" or "can you be my girlfriend?" cuz i've heard both of them from my friends in LA... she was shocked...
2006-09-12 20:51:43 · answer #8 · answered by ~Millie~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey at your age, i dont think so. marriage is starting a life together, just the two of you. so what r u guys gonna do, move into your parents house and sleep in separate bedrooms. you wanna wait for marriage when your both old enough to have your own place, to understand what love is, to drive at least. right now ur just being silly, focus on school, focus on being a kid, cuz trust me when ur married you wont get to do half the things you do now. get away from me with that ridiculousness.
2006-09-12 20:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discover life, hang out at the local mall. Don't rush into anything. This is the part of you life that filled with fun and adventure. Make sure your happy is whatever you do. Make good choices, you know what works for you.
2006-09-12 20:52:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋