Ive been with my boyfriend 7 months, he lives a couple of hours drive away, so I see him on weekends, and I drive up once a week to see him. he only has a single bed.
Anyway he told me he doesnt want me coming up tonight (first time ever) because its uncomfortable in single bed, and hes moving on the weekend and needs his rest, Im really upset because I havent seen him in a week. and he has never told me Im not welcome. Should I be upset, or am I being paranoid??
He told me just to wait until the weekend,
2006-09-12 20:14:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He had to have dinner and hung up, and told me he would call me back, and I havent heard anything from him since (it was yesterday it happened)
2006-09-12 20:17:09 · update #1
his spending the weekend with someone else
2006-09-12 20:17:05 · answer #1 · answered by say_what!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not be upset about the situation for now. Sometimes men want to have a free space to rest on their own and regular routine/planned meetings bore men very much then you could ever imagine.
To tell the truth, you should wait until the weekend and then talk about the stuff if it really annoys you.
2006-09-13 03:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by blackeagle81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely be upset. He doesn't want you to come up for some reason. Even if the bed is small, if he hasn't seen you in a week then he should want to see you. Something's wrong.
2006-09-13 03:17:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible that what he said is true. You will need to give it time. If this is the one and only time you ever hear anything like this from him, it was probably true. If you hear any version of this tale again, tell him you'll be up for a visit when Hell freezes over.
2006-09-13 03:16:46 · answer #4 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on...
i guest u must miss some special (ur bf wishes ) during the weekend night....
i am a boy, there is no reason to reject m gf during the night.
by the way.. i dont think "single bed" is the point....
it may implies . there is someone else
2006-09-13 03:20:52 · answer #5 · answered by Eugene Wu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be upset cause it seems from the information that you gave he is trying to dish you or is having some other type of problem.
2006-09-13 03:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, ther's only two question here.
first, is he really tired and needs rest for....... (how long was it again?oooh, next weekend, honey thats too long for a rest!)
second, he's cheating on you and like what they told you screwing someone else.
well, its really up to you to think but you know what? my guy always checking on me and wants to be with me anytime possible. he even ask me to go with him on his field works........
2006-09-13 03:26:20 · answer #7 · answered by leviosa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it's pretty normal for a girl to get upset after what he's said......maybe he's stressful nowadays....give him more time n' space....u can look into his photos n' love letters whenever u feel blue.....when he's okay, he'll call u....good luck!!
2006-09-13 03:21:40 · answer #8 · answered by Marijuana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to give lots of excuses for not wanting to see you. And that spelt something..
2006-09-13 03:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by Jasmine Ird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well low self esteem on your part I think. well you get to see him on the weekend...... but from my experience. he is cheating on you. when a man tells you not to come, that means he is screwing someone else. sorry but it is true......
2006-09-13 03:17:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋