at first im interested in a guy.. i get their attention .. and we become friends and start hanging out.. they want somthing more.. but somwhere along the line .. i dont know what happens to me, but i realize that i'm not interested anymore.. or that their boring.. and then the guy ends up being hurt. i dont mean to hurt them! i just feel like somthing makes me change my mind... i dont know what to do.. it seems like i cant even be friends with guys cause it always goes farther than that... i'm so confused... any advice?
2006-09-12 19:59:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, there is a solution, if you can do it!
Get a pen and paper, take an honest look at your self and the type of person you really are! Write down all the positives and negatives!
Complete honesty in other words! That's the hard part!
Then try to find a guy with some of those traits that you have! Just because a guy is hot, don't make him any less of a total jerk!
2006-09-12 20:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
set a boundary between friends and f**k buddies, then you know who you can do what with, some girls just like the chase and once they have won the guy over they dont want him anymore, its called growing up, eventually you will mature enough that you wont play the want and then dont want game, its like shopping looks good on the rack, but when you get it home it doesnt fit right
2006-09-13 03:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by cindy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you soon realise that men expect more from a relationship then women. friendship sometimes goes along the line but it is not a willing statement unless both of you want it to be. If you meet someone who you will feel the same way he does then everything is going to be fine. do not criticise yourself. just live the life.
2006-09-13 03:03:32 · answer #3 · answered by blackeagle81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look sometimes people just get a little over anxious.Don't give up on all guy friendships.But you never know.The boring might be someone that is waiting to be unleashed by the right person.
2006-09-13 03:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by lovely soul with insite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u are not ready to accept them and u go out with them to pass time perhaps you want company and attention....just tell them you treat them as best friend and nothing more so be open and tell them the truth if along the long road both of u hit out well then i would say u may have some attraction to him so go ahead...
2006-09-13 03:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by chrystalhow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. You refuse to be pushed into a situation for which you're not ready. Guys you are meeting apparently don't know how to take it slow. You are doing nothing wrong. Just give it time and you will find the right one.
2006-09-13 03:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
sound like the guys that you hang with are dogs, tell the guys first off that you want to be friends, explain what a friend is to them if they can't understand that, then thay are after one thing, your lower lips. most men think with there 2nd head. not there 1st head,
2006-09-13 03:08:31 · answer #7 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are looking for friends why not seek females? that way there'd be no pressure for sex.
or join a club/group.
lastly, you might hate me for this but you could work as a prostitute. it would allow you to enjoy the newness of each encounter without feeling tied to emotional commitment or ongoing expectations.
2006-09-13 03:08:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop dating boring, uneducated people. Find someone like me that is very dashing, intelligent, and knows how to have fun!
2006-09-13 03:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by Jose Esoj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you select the right person.if necessary take help of your parente.Then dont have wavering mind.Hold on to your selection.Make life interesting inby developing your hobbies.
2006-09-13 03:07:16 · answer #10 · answered by maithravarun v 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋