Say you have a major crush on a particular person( mabye a few years) even before you meet yr current gf/bf
when u see yr crush you forget all abt yr other half?
eventually you got to know yr crush better and turns out the person is even nicer than you have expected or mabye worst(but u still like that person) would you stay with yr current gf/bf or pursue yr crush (note that yr crush on this person has been like 5 years or more)?
2006-09-12 19:52:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't usually help who you like, I think its okay to have a crush on another person even if your already in a relationship but as long as you dont get distracted from you current bf/gl. If you feel that you like your crush more than your gf/bf then you shouldnt continue to be dating you bf/gf , you dont want to lead them on. Hope I helped- feel free to email me. Good luck! Bye!
2006-09-12 19:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, It happens, it's just attraction people can't help it. But it also depends on how big of a crush and how far your willing to go with this crush. Then you prob shouldnt be in a relationship.
2006-09-13 03:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think that your crush felt the same way as you do? Before dumping your gf/bf make sure first that your crush wanted more than friendship from you.
2006-09-13 02:57:04 · answer #3 · answered by japsie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the length of time of this crush has little importance here! I would suggest that you drop your bf, this way he can find some one better that deserves him AND RESPECTS HIM!
Then you run after your crush! Your telling bad stuff on your self here! Your telling every one that you are a cheater in the making!
2006-09-13 03:02:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i knew my crush when i was in high school, i knew him better rather than with my husband at tht time and i still keep feeling to my crush after 5 years of marriage. so do u think tt i already cheated my husband? LOL having feeling and love is different.. i wont give up my marriage just because i feel happy with my 'flirt'.
2006-09-13 03:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by simplelife76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how strong my relationship is with my boyfriend i'm in that same situation right now but i chose to stick with my guy because of love
2006-09-13 03:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attractions and crushes are like pimples.they keep coming ! what does it has to do with having or not having a bf !
2006-09-13 05:38:41 · answer #7 · answered by S S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lady........u said it a crush...........is a crush thats why it last it for 5 years.....keep it there.......
cause as soon as u change the status it would not longer be a crush.......but ur new bf....or maybe just a ****.......who knows......
but if ur going be changing ur partner everytime u have a mayor crush on someone.........u r just a very unstable person....
2006-09-13 03:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by know it all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are normal. It happens to everyone. Just make sure that u manage it well in order not to compromise on your current one
2006-09-13 03:05:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that is possible ,the rest is too confusing i lost track of your position
2006-09-13 02:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋