Can you have major crush on someone even if you have a gf/bf?
Say you have a major crush on a particular person( mabye a few years) even before you meet yr current gf/bf
when u see yr crush you forget all abt yr other half?
eventually you got to know yr crush better and turns out the person is even nicer than you have expected
or mabye worst(but u still like that person) would you stay with yr current gf/bf or pursue yr crush (note that yr crush on this person has been like 5 years or more)?
2006-09-12 19:50:25 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Totally!
2006-09-12 19:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes of course, we are all attracted to other people even when we're in relationships. that is a common problem in a lot of relationships, people forget about chemistry and hormones and it doesn't mean anything in regards to the other person or that they are going to act on those feelings just that they have a reaction.
but since you have a had a crush for awhile it seems, then you should perhaps figure out what it is about this person that attracts you to them. is it just physical or something more? did you get with the SO because you needed to be with someone? or felt that it might make the crush jealous enough to make a move?
personally i wouldnt make any drastic relationship changes until you figure out how you really feel about the crush any why. perhaps talk to them about it then make a decision about the SO you're with.
2006-09-12 20:05:29 · answer #2 · answered by captain crash 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure but why hasn't anything happened already? Could it be that your crush is not interested in you? If they are, you should go for it. You are not married so you should find who you really want to be with. If you are forgetting about your current squeaze when this person is around, you like them more. Just ask yourself.. what will you do if your crush rejects you? Will you then want to be with your bf? If you do not love your bf, get out, find someone you do. Life is short, you are young and true love does exist, you just have to find it
2006-09-12 19:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup yup... a crush is just a CRUSH and what u have with ur bf should be more than that ... it should be LOVE... so go and have a crush on someone else but make sure you dont end up completely falling for the other guy... make sure u just admire a certain feature about him or his certain characteristic... and not want more than that.... cause if u want more.with ur so-called CRUSH then that IS BAD... either u dont LOVE ur bf enough that u'v actually considered falling for someone else.. or ur not taking him seriously... either way (if that IS the case) u should end things with ur BF....
2006-09-12 20:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by supercalifragelisticexpialidoseo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First I would look at if this relationship I'm in will be a total loving relationship.If you do not believe it will get to know your crush better.See if that person has good potential.If so you better pursue that relationship.It could be true love.
2006-09-12 19:55:19 · answer #5 · answered by lovely soul with insite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a crush on a guy since i was 17 and now I'm 26, I still have a big crush on him even now I'm married, I'm still talk to guy but he doesn't knows that..quite sad for me, and I do love my husband too..I'm really confused..
2006-09-14 23:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by Oww 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I Guess it all depends.. If you are very in love with your bf/gf then i would put an end to the crush
2006-09-12 19:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by matthew w 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah I would stay with my bf! If that crush didn't lead to nothing back then, I don't think it would lead to something now! Good luck!
2006-09-12 19:53:53 · answer #8 · answered by xSilverStarx 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
certain, It occurs, this is in basic terms charm human beings can not help it. in spite of the undeniable fact that it also relies upon on how vast of a weigh down and how some distance your prepared to bypass with this weigh down. then you actually prob shouldnt be in a courting.
2016-11-26 20:51:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. They call it cheating. Be a good person and break up before you pursue someone else romantically.
2006-09-12 19:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by W0LF 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋