2006-09-12 19:48:22 · 20 answers · asked by sexy_rayne2000 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
NO no no no no no no!
I cannot understand why anyone would want someone else to control their life.
2006-09-12 19:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by wotana02 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is probably okay for him. He may be a control freak and possible needs to act this way to be happy, If you want to keep him you need to let him think he is controlling your life while in fact he is not. The other alternative is to dump him probably the better choice but if you do dump him it is for good because going back to him after that will just lead to him exercising greater control. The best solution is counselling but control freaks don't go there easily, they are not about to give control to a stranger. Good luck.
2006-09-12 20:01:39 · answer #2 · answered by Brian M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he lets you control his life then its okay... but if he doesn't let u interfere in his matters n tries to control ur life then u dont hafta dance on his finger tips n in this situation u shudnt even consider him as ur bf ... just a frnd for the time being n forget eachother
2006-09-12 20:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by indian girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on what he is trying to control! If he is trying to control every aspect of your life or even major things and his interferance is bothering you or causing you problems then the answer is absolutely NO, it is not okay.
2006-09-12 19:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by russys_baby_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think your mind can accept it that way throughout your life, it is okay. if you feel like accepting it now and yet, if, at some point of time feel it's not okay with you, it would be very difficult to get that habit out of your boyfriend. before it does become a habit, tell him what you feel about it.
2006-09-12 20:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by ice_on_fire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. He isnt your father and you should inform him of such. Your boyfriend should not want control of your life. I would keep an eye out for abusive behavior.
2006-09-12 19:53:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO IT IS NOT OKAY.
This is supposed to be a free country, but depending on your age, it is possible you have an overprotective sweetheart from SCHOOL that is insecure about himself and needs to know everything you are doing. Am I right?
Tell him you are a FREE WOMAN and if he doesn't understand that you are going to dump him.
2006-09-12 19:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by WILD ONE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it depends...as long as he doesnt exceed his limits and whether you are comfortable with it...sometimes there are certain things our bf control us on things and there is certain things we control our bf on things... but depends on what things.. if its reasonable, then its fine to me... when people are in a state of a relationship, they would wan to be treated differently compared being treated by their friends. Ofcourse, your bf would want to be different from you friends… he want to be treated special with certains control in your life and for me that’s normal for anyone to feel that way… For example, when you are going out with your friend, your bf would want you to tell him first before going out right?? thats special treatment... dont tell me you need to inform him if he is your friend right?? So me this is a normal thing...but like i said depends...as long as he doesnt go beyond his limits... but if you said he is controllling your life as in not letting you go out with your friends and family, then i say that is wrong because in the first place, he has no right to do that to you... secondly there is no trust in the relationship... unless if he caught you with another guy thats why he is doing this, then i see nothing wrong with it... but like i said too...it depends on you whether you are comfortable with it or not... If you don’t like what he is doing to do right now… then you should clarify with him on this matter...
2006-09-12 20:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by Faradoves 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmm.....NO! You control your own life. When he dumps you, you will have spent all your time following his orders. Don't do it, be independent and make your own decisions!
2006-09-12 19:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by jaded 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no....no one should control your life but you, even if he pays for your bills he has no right to control you
2006-09-12 19:56:44 · answer #10 · answered by Irene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋