My Boy Friend is facing a very bad period of time. He works but he's not happy at all where he works and also not happy with his salary. I tried to help him about finding another job but it seems not going well with him. It's been almost 3 months where he works but not happy at all.
I'm afraid he's going through a slight depression. I don't remember seeing him smiling or laughing. I don't know what to do to make him feel better. Is it a bad luck or something else?I don't know.
Please tell me what can we do. coz this affecting everything in his life.Sometimes I feel it could affect us since we r trying hard to be married!
2006-09-12 19:46:08 · 3 answers · asked by Musty 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know what really can i do for him and for us to make him really happy!
i'm just worried!
2006-09-12 20:28:27 · update #1
I have been through that before with my girlfriends (ex not cause of something different) but all you have to do is support him maby try and get him to go in a different direction maby not a mew job but school for a new career that is what my girl did for me and it worked times were still tough but when i am don't i will be happier and in a better place doing what i want to do
2006-09-12 19:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by sublime883 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't be able to change his thinking if he himself doesn't want to. It has to come from within, for him to stop his depression and do something about it! What you can do is to support him in his actions.
Discuss with him the different alternatives he can take, the pluses and minuses of each alternative. This will take his mind off his depression into a state of mind to seek solutions!
If he doesn't want to help himself, then you can decide whether you can live with such a weak character as your partner. The choice is yours to make!
2006-09-13 03:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should set aside some time to talk about how each of you feel and how your day has been. Be supportive of him and reassuring. Try to pin point the exact problem, then try to develop some solutions. Figure out which solution would work the best.
2006-09-13 02:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by Michael H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋