my fiances parents are divorced and his dad is recently remarried. How do we tell him that he is not invited to stay? we want him to come to the wedding, but it would not work out having him stay in the cabin with his mom there. help!
2006-09-12 19:37:55 · 6 answers · asked by ME 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Tell him this no offense but you can't stay here we don't want any drama
2006-09-12 20:23:32 · answer #1 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you would invite one parent and not the other. I'm sure that everyone would have separate rooms and could be at the very least civil and polite during the wedding. Why should your fiance's mother be allowed to stay but not his father? I think that if most of the guests are invited to stay with you, but not his father - then he would probably be offended. You should try to make arrangements so his father can stay there too - put his parents in rooms that are furthest away from each other. If it's really such a big problem, you and your fiance should ASK his father if he would be okay with staying at an adjacent cabin or hotel. And you should pay for it.
2006-09-13 06:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to have one parent be allowed to stay and not the other; your fiancee will probably be in the middle of a sticky situation. Just tell him that there was only so much room for other guests to be abelt to stay with you, and that it's all taken up. maybe you guys can help him make reservations somewhere nearby to compensate.
2006-09-12 19:49:52 · answer #3 · answered by kiki 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only way is face forward and tell him, that you really want him at the wedding but is awkard for him to stay in the cabin with his new wife, while is x is there.............
2006-09-12 19:47:01 · answer #4 · answered by mysticideas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His dad should understand that this is yours and your husband day. He should respect your wishes and it should not be an issue...Is there any place close that they can stay.
2006-09-12 19:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by ha1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Offer to pay for a hotel/motel room for them.
2006-09-12 19:46:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋