i met this girl recently and i find her attractive and i dont want to make the same mistakes as the past. So, what must i do to not become just a friend to her?? I know that once you become friends, its kinda hard for any relationships to happen. So in the beginning, what should i do to prevent me from becoming a friend, rather than a potential partner?
2006-09-12 19:35:39 · 7 answers · asked by freshhhhhhieeee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be too nice and don't call back. Be busy elsewhere.
2006-09-12 19:37:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE honest upfront. I am attracted to you as a mate. Take the harsh reality of the response and be prepared for the correct reply to it.
If NO- then are you okay with "just" friends? IF not then just go away. This is not ever going to be okay for you, why suffer.
If Yes- then lay out a plan of action and some ideas for dates to get to know ya better. Starting right now! Jump on it, no time to waste. Action speaks volumes louder than words.
2006-09-12 19:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date so that you can get to know each other better. Then, you can let the cat out of the bag (tell her how you feel about her). Am sure things will go smoothly. Good luck!!
2006-09-12 19:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by Shannah! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u know thta friendship ia a stepping stone for love to happen and then u goota be her very good friend and make her used to you so that she asks for u for every thing and you help her every time and one fine day u just tell her that u have started liking her and she will also tell u the same thing...reach a girls heart through her hand.just by a handshake ................you can start the friendship...........ok......good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!111
2006-09-12 19:41:10 · answer #4 · answered by kash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you want to be a friend, you just want to avoid the "just friends" category of friendship. My best advice is to be open with her. Tell her directly that you like her. Girls like assertiveness.
2006-09-12 19:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by Avia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date.
2006-09-12 19:38:00 · answer #6 · answered by cotterall&elaineadams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to her and say i would like to be your boyfriend and wait for the answer. female like a man who has b***s. do you?
2006-09-12 19:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋