(Please do not just say "you just know!"
Answers from guys & girls please!)
How can you tell the difference between lust and love?
2006-09-12 19:13:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a bit hard to explain. True love is almost crippling. The first time I experienced it I was terrified. For me, it was something I experienced most in my stomach. It was so painful anytime we were together, or apart; literally. Whenever she was away I was completely lost and wanted nothing more than for us to be reunited. I could not eat, sleep, or concentrate; I was literally consumed by her. I could not fully explain my feelings to her as I was afraid she wasn't experiencing the same thing. It was a pretty awesome. Nothing compares to the first time you are in love; it's surreal. And, I know this is not what you wanted to hear, but you know when you know. If you are wondering if it is love, then it probably isn't. I asked myself the same thing before I fell for the first time. Well, I hope this helps a bit, it is definitely difficult to describe, poets and musicians have been trying for thousands of years, and no true definition has ever been agreed upon. Ya know?
2006-09-12 19:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by Billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust is a biological urge, a zeal of organs for each other.
When the moon hits your eyes like a big a pizza pie, that's amore.
When the world seems to shine like you've had too much wine, that's amore.
2006-09-13 02:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a very deep emotion, lust is not. When your in love you have three important elements: intimacy, a commitment, and very deep feelings. In that I must warn you that love hurts, and be sure that the person you fall for is the right person for you.
2006-09-13 02:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by KAY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is when you would die for that person. Not because you feel you have to, but because you would rather them not go through the pain. Love is when you cannot imagine your life without them. When all you think about is them. When everytime you see them or hear their voice you instantly feel this happy, giddy little school girl feeling inside. When no other guy matters to you except them. You see yourself living the rest of your life with them and only them. You see yourself growing old with them and no one else fills that spot when you imagine someone else in that spot it just doesnt seem right. When all you think about is them. Its love when everything in the world could be going wrong for you, but you come home to them and you instantly feel better. Love is wanting nothing else in the world but them. Its missing them as soon as you walk out the door. Love is when they committ the ultimate sin like cheating or breakin up with you, and you still love them. No matter how much they hurt you, you still love them just as you did before. Yea you may be mad at them and be hurt, but they come back and say they are sorry and you still love them just the same. Trust me, you will know. I know you dont want to hear that, but you just know.
2006-09-13 02:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by Care Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust is a purely physical attraction.
Love is a more complete attraction, where you are attracted to a person not only for their looks, but also their personality and who they are as a person.
2006-09-13 02:18:46 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust is part of love.
Love is big and encompasses attraction, tenderness, sacrifice, lust, commitment, compassion, and all sorts of good, warm, fuzzy things BESIDES that tickly feeling on your genitals.
2006-09-13 02:17:07 · answer #6 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lust is a want n luv is a need. if ur in luv u would want to always b with him n u would do anything for him. luv is seeing urself in him when u look at him there are no wrongs just all rights in ur eyes.
2006-09-13 02:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by shortiluv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love stems from lust. scientifically proved
2006-09-13 02:27:49 · answer #8 · answered by answer@yahoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone hit me on my head
before I am in love: beat the living shlt out of him.
after I am love: forgiveness and smile cause the world it's so BEAUTIFUL
2006-09-13 02:19:15 · answer #9 · answered by Hart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i miss him everytime i think of him. every event tt happens around me remind me to him and i talk about him to my family, friend most ot the time. i compare him to other friend's BF. etc etc. all about him him him
u cant c other's beauty and only think of him/her kindness. love is actually blind coz u cant c what other people c in him.
well it's a very relatif questions. every 1 has his own answer. HOW about u?
2006-09-13 02:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by simplelife76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋