2006-09-12 19:10:16 · 14 answers · asked by meandragon 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have told my wife and I do not want it to keep going nor does my wife as she is a family member and only 13 we have tried a lot of things to stop it from happenig to no end and I am not atracted to her
2006-09-12 20:32:00 · update #1
Have you talked to you wife about it? Maybe your step-daughter would feel more comfortable talking to her mom about it rather than you. How old is she? I remember a time when I was an early teen and I found certain things in my dad attractive and I noticed him as a man besides him being my dad. But it was nothing sexual. Just a teen girl's observation of her dad changing. Don't worry about it too much as long as it's not sexual. It should pass. Maybe talk to her about guys at her school to get her attention off of you.
2006-09-12 19:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront her and tell her that you are in love with her mother and that there will never be anything between the two except the relationship of step father and step daughter.
If it still progresses into something stronger then i would get her mother involved and have a serious talk with her.
2006-09-13 02:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk around naked.... once she sees what you look like nekid she won't have a crush on you anymore.....
Just talk to her.... just tell her that you are honored (or something like that) that she thinks that you are attractive but there is nothing you can do to help her with these feelings that she has...
this only applies if you are really old.... if your one of those guys who are 20 and dating a 40 yr old and the daughter is 20 well then your up shitte creek....
and if she's really hot.... then all bets are off..... pervert.....
2006-09-13 02:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by pro_steering_wheel_holder 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with your wife and discuss the matter with her. Explain to her why you believe her daughter has a crush on you, and ask your wife to discuss the matter with her daughter.
2006-09-13 02:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to know what makes you think this or how you know, but I will tell you that it will lead to trouble if you don't nip it in the bud. Tell your wife and perhaps your family can get counseling.
2006-09-13 02:12:39 · answer #5 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step daughter? Ewww she better be over 18 if your thinking of going for it.
2006-09-13 02:41:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out mate before you get yourself in the poop.
you will end up on charges and a teenager with stuff your life. keep the missus informed
2006-09-13 08:26:45 · answer #7 · answered by timbo323232 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on her age, if an adult ignore it, but if a minor tell mother/wife about it and agree on what to do about it next
2006-09-13 02:13:54 · answer #8 · answered by hailiemackenzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just shug her off politely and if possible pls involve your spouse so that it does not advance any further....it would be morally wrong to be sleeping with mother and daughter both.
2006-09-13 02:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were u then it's good luck to me...ohh man take up the chance and enjoy life...good luck
2006-09-13 04:00:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋