Whenever I argue with my husband we don't talk to each other until am always the one to talk to him and i feel

Question

Whenever we get into an argument with my husband we don't talk to each other until am i always the one to make up and to make him realise things but it always repeated again after we argue again. i always feel bad because me also am still not ready to talk yet but because our 2 years old son i do it him. please am desperately need help?

Answer 1

then stop arguing.

Answer 2

He is very stubborn and immature its not fair that you always have to be the first one all of the time to start things going again. You sound like me just find it so hard not to talk to somebody for a long time.

Answer 3

I have had the same deal,...insist communication, I had to leave before he actually saw that and sees that his lack of causes me to jump to conclusions on what he might be thinking because he wont share what he feels and makes me frett and guess..so, unless you want it to turn into a loveless ,stressful marriage,insist communication is the key without demanding..let him know the benefits and why you are telling him..let me know if this works for you ok? 33 and married for 13 yrs

Answer 4

Sounds like me and my boyfriend. I always have to be the one to say something FIRST after an argurment OR we'll have sex and then he's ready to kiss and make up. I think its just a male ego thing, i dont think theres anything that can be done. men will be men.

Answer 5

As a mom and wife I know what you mean but we always do things for our kids and whats best for them. If there's no violets going on don't worry everybody argues even if they say they don't and there life is perfect B**S**

Answer 6

maybe suggest counseling...

I mean it seems that there maybe something larger than the little arguements bothering him. the counseling session could give both of you guys a neutral medium to speak your mind and the counselor will bee there to direct you in a better manner to respond.