2006-09-12 18:35:26 · 12 answers · asked by ♥love♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well its like...uhhh...he said he doesnt have time for a relationship and yeah...and he said da only person hes would want to be with is someone he realy knows
2006-09-12 18:50:30 · update #1
hey im in the same position ur in.
the thing is, u really cant. its hard and a knot to the heart, i know. i guess all u really have left to do is if he's free, then go take a shot and get to know him and ask him. it might turn out to be a good thing.
if hes not free, then im sorry. thats me- 6 months of loving someone who doesnt even know im alive anymore.
but you'll get over it, as time passes by. maybe it'll take a while, but i bet you'll discover more crushes so that you wont have to like this particular dude anymore. good luck w/ everything.
if he's right for you, why not take a shot? why not?
2006-09-12 18:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by Lucas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it is painful but you shouldn't force yourself to stop liking him what if you make yourself not like him and then he actually likes you. However if he is taken or doesn't like you backadn that is the reason u dont want to like him then I guess you just have to focus your attention somewhere else
I'm in pretty much the same situation he doesn't ahve time for a relationship
It hurts doesn't it when you can't stop liking him I guess I'll just wait and see what happens maybe the feelings will go away or maybe he will change his mind :)
2006-09-13 02:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by lil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with other guys. Look at other guys and compare them to him. Some guys will definitely outweigh his qualities. Start looking around, don't stop your eyes from wandering, and of course, FLIRT! A girl can get over a guy really quickly if she flirts with anyone and everyone, or just those people that you would normally flirt with.
2006-09-13 01:39:31 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be some things about his personality you don't like - focus on those. I also suggest staying away from him and looking for someone or something else to focus your attention on.
2006-09-13 01:38:47 · answer #4 · answered by the_fatmanwalksalone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't force yourself not to like him. I mean, if you like him, then you like him. It's hard to go against your feelings. But why do you want to stop liking him? Is it because he's not boyfriend material, or he doesn't like you back? Try to talk to him and see if he's interested. If not, then once you realize that he's not worth it, then you'll begin to lose feelings for him and you'll just say, ah whatever. Don't force anything, just go with the flow. Lol.
2006-09-13 01:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by polka dot dottt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give a lot of though to why u do not want to like him.There has to be something wrong which u do not like.
Keep recalling that.Associate him with that .
That is your answer.
2006-09-13 01:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by pathik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine his penis being a pus infected worm which oozes STD's and germs.
Then you will not like him :)
2006-09-13 01:38:34 · answer #7 · answered by kirstalina81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will go away eventually
2006-09-13 01:38:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about negative things about him...
it works but not all the time. wish u luck!!
2006-09-13 01:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by crazy_for_you 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont think about him and concentrate other things like new hobbies or something....
2006-09-13 01:44:13 · answer #10 · answered by Diane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋