In this day and age with AIDS rampant, and the woman is somewhat unattractive, would I be doing myself in? Is this morally right? They got away with it on Match Point. Mature people please respond(you must be over 23 years of age to answer this question.
2006-09-12 18:34:18 · 18 answers · asked by anonymous2372000 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
no. it's better to have no sex until marriage.
2006-09-12 18:36:01 · answer #1 · answered by jv637 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
definitely NO. and I don't think if that engaged woman is your fiancee, you'd want some guy to be banging with her just when you are starting to plan a lifetime with her.
and even if you get away with it later, if the later-husband don't find out, you'd still be putting their relationship in jeopardy and that is such a selfish action from you. try to use your head first before sticking up your "weapon" to someone else's fight.
people who think like you are normally the reason why good relationships and/or marriages don't last as expected. i'm sure in the future, you'd also want to be in a commitment built on fidelity and trust.
this is a mature answer from a mature mind. and i hope you'd use your head more than your balls in deciding if you really should have sex with an engaged woman. goodluck!
2006-09-13 01:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by kamahalan_12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...are YOU engaged to her? If so, sure. Have all the sex you want. (But use a condom if you don't want a fetus.) If you're not engaged to her, then NO -- but not because of AIDS or because you don't want to get her pregnant. If she's not your fiancee, you don't have sex with her because SHE'S HAVING SEX WITH SOMEONE ELSE (or at least intends to) and you'd be a big asshole for screwing someone else's wife-to-be.
2006-09-13 01:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by rabidbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you must ask why do it. you already know it is morally wrong. you will have no respect for you or her. there are too many women out there ratio actually to be dealing with one that is not even sure she wants to get married. cause if she did she wouldnt be debating sex with you. dont put yourself out there like that or her leave it alone
2006-09-13 01:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUH!!! You aren't even attracted to her!!! Why would you have sex with her??? Engaged or not, if you aren't attacted to her, why have sex??? GROW UP!!! YES, I am over 23 and YES I am asking you, as a favor to ALL OF US in the U.S. to STOP having sex with people that you are not even attracted to!!!!!!!!!!!! You are the ones that spread disease, s.t.d's and AIDS!!!! Why don't you get to KNOW someone before having sex???
JUST 4 KICKS!!!!!!!!! By the way, thank you for the world epidemic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A@#HOLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-13 01:50:29 · answer #5 · answered by ktterdfurguson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The woman has issues if she is willing to cheat. There are plenty of single woman. Let this woman deal with her issues and steer clear of her.
2006-09-13 01:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by Amelia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think you answered your own question. shes unattractive, you might get aids or something of the like, and you're doubting if its morally right.
2006-09-13 01:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of Karma? I'm a firm believe in "what goes around comes around".
2006-09-13 01:46:59 · answer #8 · answered by JQT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes go 4 it
2006-09-13 01:40:45 · answer #9 · answered by merlin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you crazy? Or just horny or dumb? Stay away from other guys women, keep yourself safe - in more ways than infectious diseases.
2006-09-13 01:46:01 · answer #10 · answered by Judy C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if she pays you. Chant It- "No Free Dick In 2006"
2006-09-13 01:43:22 · answer #11 · answered by sgt_rescue_a_bbw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋