why do i always end up attracting guys that are much older than me? the most ironic thing is i look really young.. and i always end up having to break their hearts as i'm a really shallow person when it comes to choosing a mate.. *sigh*
2006-09-12 18:31:48 · 6 answers · asked by Samantha T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way i dont really think i'm doing a self-promotion here and i'm not sure about the flirting part. but i do prefer male companions as they're easier to understand and they do not read between lines and stuff like most women. sometimes i think i'm a male trapped in a female's body.. gee, sounds sick i know!!
2006-09-13 01:21:59 · update #1
I think you've answered yourself.
2006-09-12 18:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow Samantha,
I think you are VERY aware of the answer to this question and you just want to do a little self promotion here.
Yeah, older men are attracted to younger women, BUT older women are also attracted to younger men as well soooo.....
PLEASE!!!!
RE: The preceding answer above. We, (that means all of us like to look and dream when we see an attractive person of the opposite sex attraction.
You break their (older men's) hearts because that is what you want to do. You want to feel attractive and want to feel wanted and validated and the most possitive and self fulfilling way to do this is to tease older men! Because they know how to compliment and how to treat and how to.... well 'nuff said.
You need to stop the EGO trip on yourself and quit lying to men about your intentions!!! You take your flirting WAY to far and when this happens men get confused, then you finally tell them the truth regarding your head games and....
Nuff, I'm done here and my suggestion is that you should read some self help books and live honestly with yourself so you can be honest with everyone else.
I am sorry to offend but your question caught me in a weird confrontational mood.
So good luck to your life and hugs to you girl,
jeffrey
2006-09-13 01:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do the same thing. There is something about older guys ... plus most older men want a younger woman. I think you are attracted to the experience and maturity (in some cases). I agree though don't go with a guy unless it feels right to you.
2006-09-13 01:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by J P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that you are the best person to answer this question. Sometimes you may have unintetionally give a wrong signal to the guys and they thought that you like them. So it ended up that you have to tell them the truth.
Looking young is not a problem but I think it is more of personal character. I think you are those who are friendly and easy going types of girls. That's why a lot of guys are attracted by you. You don't need to change your character but just be alert when guys start to take action in giving hints that they are attracted to you, so once you sense this you just tell them how you treat them.
2006-09-13 07:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because older men are attracted to younger females
2006-09-13 01:35:05 · answer #5 · answered by Bar10der 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go with a guy unless you feel hes right
2006-09-13 01:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by flylilangels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋