My wonderful ladies, why is it that you fall for the wrong guys. I am not sure if it is the fact that you know he is going to treat you bad, so when he does something nice, it seem sdoubel that of a nice guy? My friend is dating the wrong guy ( I am not jealous, i dont date my friends). she tells me how bad he treats her yet she calls him up 3 times a week for another session!! Why would you e in a ealtioship that makes you horrible..I have introduced her to great guys, but she always blows them off...i am almost ready to make her suffer in her misery...Am I worng for doing that
2006-09-12 18:26:49 · 19 answers · asked by O Jam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, if you spend too much time bailing her boat then you become part of her sick scheme to keep herself down. Tell her to join you when she is in a healthy relationship because it's too painful for you to see her being treated badly.
2006-09-12 18:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by kepher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like assh*les, that's common knowledge. Most girls don't realize the guy is a jerk until a very far way into the relationship. Some girls also don't realize that the guy is a jerk whatsoever, yes, they are naive. I think that maybe your friend will realize for herself how incredibly wrong she is. And don't worry, she'll experience all the suffering she needs if she keeps putting herself through such a terrible relationship.
2006-09-12 18:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most girls go through a bad-boy phase, unfortunately, many don't get out of that phase. And women could say the same thing about men: why do men always date such annoying mean women? I think of myself as a kind, thoughtful, fun person, but I got burned by guy after guy. I got tired of it, and so I swore off guys (again). Then, in March, I met the most amazing guy ever. He's kind, thoughtful, and fun. I finally realized that the bad boy is just that, bad. Hopefully your friend will learn that one day too. best of luck!
2006-09-12 18:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by kameka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your proverbial heart? Or, your actual heart? the answer, for sure relies upon not on which heart you recommend, yet which concepts you recommend? with regard to the word, "he's lost his concepts" we may be able to collect that in case you probably did lose your proverbial heart, you would possibly want to easily lose your 'concepts' as in, your sanity, searching on what possibilities you chosen thereafter. With the concepts as contained in the 'ego' the idea approaches that typically administration us, in case you lost your proverbial heart , you would possibly want to more effective than likely lose your concepts because it develop into because then you actually would not function as a conventional human anymore. you'll develop into robotic, lacking empathy, compassion and different human features that effect the concepts and make you human. you would possibly want to develop right into a device, and their minds are something thoroughly diverse. The question might want to develop into, what might want to be the employing stress of your new concepts set? What might want to effect your judgements? in case you meant dropping your truthfully, actual heart... nicely, then i might want to assert certain and no to dropping your concepts, any concepts. certain, because you would possibly want to be useless. Your body as you knew it would want to not be performing on any element, and hence be without concepts. No, because it really is asserted the 'concepts' under no circumstances dies, yet overlaps from reincarnation to reincarnation, and is the reason why we inventory some habit and concepts by, oftentimes being perceived as genetics, dream states or deja vu. in spite of the actual undeniable reality that it really is unquestionably your spirit or soul it fairly is doing the reincarnating, the soul comes from the only soul that inhabits each and every thing, and so your 'concepts' that learns extra with each and every reincarnation is unquestionably your very individualism. without it, you at the on the spot are not you.
2016-11-26 20:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by sangster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ladies like a challenge, if they get what they want all the time, or the guy is being super nice, then they want to know what is wrong with him, eventually they will realize life is simpiler if you accept the good along with the bad and there are still good guys out there that will treat you right
2006-09-12 18:32:04 · answer #5 · answered by cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a pretty broad generalisation, so let me make one too.
Usually girls will go for a confident, good looking guy - not a shy nerd.
Its just unfortunate that the nice guys are usually nerds.
2006-09-12 18:35:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why we fall for the wrong guys???
i don't even think there will be a RIGHT one for any of us.
There is just the good one, who would have to always by her side. If there is one.
2006-09-12 18:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by Chanel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's making her own self miserable, how can you have any control over that if you did she would be better off. I am a single female because i choose to be, i could have one of these sorry men out here making me happy whenever he felt the need to make me smile, huh i dont think so, its sad watching a friend being treated like crap when you know she deserves so much better. she has got to see it, she needs to take a break and find out who she is ,so she will know what she wants in a man and her confidence will not allow her to settle for less. I pray everyday that us ladies will get a grip on our emotions and have better expectations out of our men. there are men out here that work hard everday maintaining his good man status. and these women out here are busting their asses to try to turn the boys into men, let them run off and play. they can work on just being a loving woman with a loving mature man. god help my ladies who deal with the impossible.
2006-09-12 18:42:54 · answer #8 · answered by purpleartof5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there re a lot of dumb women out there. pleace do not generalise. i have a great man. before i found him i had other men. they also were great. the only flaw in them - they weren't rich enough to afford me and my 3 children. this one i have now can afford me and 3 children so i have chosen to stay with him. he is the most perfect and wonderful human being. so do not generalise. smart women(moi) find nice men, dumb women find trash
2006-09-12 18:34:02 · answer #9 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is that let her be miserable. she will wake up one day and move on.
okay, about your question as to why we lost our minds, well, maybe we did, maybe we didn't.
the problem is nice guys don't really approach--- much more court. they just wait for whatever it is they are waiting for. jerks, on the other hand, have all the guts to approach and court women, so in the end women would end up with a jerk and get emotionally attached to him. we don't easily move from one man to another, because our nature is to be loyal and faithful to our partner. that, my dear, is the reason why we seem to have lost our minds.
2006-09-12 18:36:36 · answer #10 · answered by Inquirer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i can tll you from experience that it is a self conifdence and a control thing I went thru thre same thing with a guy that drank heavy and beat me intil i finially said enough and left I was scared cause he controled me but it was either live or die . it might sound mean but let her go until you see abuse then let her know that you are there as a friend all of my friends left me when i needed them just try and be agood friend
2006-09-12 18:38:34 · answer #11 · answered by dee d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋