i have known him for a year now, we talked a lot online. but we never talk in real life, not even a 'hi' when we see each other in the halls... i tend to walk away.. but he has this mischevious smile with him... in class he sits across the room from me.. and i feel that he's looking at me sometimes.. but i havent really cared till today when the class was laughing at something and i start laughing and looking up to see him looking and smiling right at me then immediatley turning away.. and later after class he comes stands near my desk and dont leave till i leave.. but i walk to fast and he didnt say nothing to me.. im so shy around him.. what should i do?
2006-09-12 18:21:00 · 14 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him, he's really into you and this could be a good relationship. You've already gone to the online stage, might as well take it to the real time level. Talk to him, just talk and see how it goes...but do it in real person, not online only because you'd miss out on a lot of things then.
2006-09-12 18:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha there is nothing to worry my dear… dis is normal… I have been through the same thing u did when I was in my teenage lives… hahaha believe me this guy is oonto u… try to talk to him…I mean u guys cant continue like this forever rite?? Ask him why he talk to u in the net but not upfront?? confront him... tell him... im very sure he likes u but something is making him scared to make the first move... try to talk to him... thats the way to start... then later as u guys get closer, both of u will open u to eachother... just try to go easy on him... he is very shy to u and so are u... for this case, i suggest u to make the first move and talk to him...guys actaully do like it when girls make the first move... whatever it is just be patient and understand the situation alright... dont owrry everything will be alright in the end... trust me on this...heheh just go and talk to him ok? and whatever it is just go easy on him...good luck!
2006-09-12 18:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by Faradoves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him! you both like each other, why dont yall talk?
It's cute to be shy but after a while it becomes annoying.
Suck it up and talk 2 him, im sure it's gonna be fine.
2006-09-12 18:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by Richard R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if you like him ,you best get rid of the shy stuff ,he will soon move on to someone else ,just say Hi back and talk to him about same stuff you would on your computer .go for it ,dont wait .
2006-09-12 18:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him online and ask him whats going on if your too shy to talk to him face to face just yet...
2006-09-12 18:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by Reaction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur more able to think longer about what u say online than u are in person. ur afraid ur gonna mess up and scare him off. just talk to him. be ur self
2006-09-12 18:23:30 · answer #6 · answered by Chardonnay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 points!!
2006-09-12 18:34:40 · answer #7 · answered by Larry & Amie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either him or u 1of u should take the lead be Ur self stop being shy
2006-09-12 18:28:26 · answer #8 · answered by archa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DON'T UNDERSTAND HOW YOU ALL CAN TALK ONLINE AND THEN NOT EVEN SPEAK WHEN YOU SEE EACH OTHER IN PERSON, THAT'S CRAZY! MAYBE BOTH OF YOU NEED TO GROW UP.
2006-09-12 18:26:00 · answer #9 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get thru yr teen yers.
2006-09-12 18:23:26 · answer #10 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋