I met this girl last year on campus, and I had this huge crush on her. But I found she was deeply engaged to a guy in Toronto. I tried so hard for almost 8 months, but she didn't give a damn about me. So I wrote a love letter to tell her how I felt and to wish her luck with her fiance. I sliped this letter under her dorm room on a rainy day(It was my birthday night and I was totally wet) but she flew away to Toronto next day to see her fiance. I couldn’t stand the pain and tried to forget about her. But I saw her again on first day of school last week and I noticed she is now more affectionate and sometimes even makes a joke as if she's my actual girl friend. For example, I saw her with another guy last weekend and she was joking "I was cheating on you!!" "But he means nothing to me" Today, I drove her home and she made me a supper and we watched TV on sofa, But before we did that she had turned a laptop and there was a picture of her and her fiancé on desktop. Maybe she was trying to warn me quietly that there is still no chance? Should I just give up on her?
2006-09-12 18:16:29 · 18 answers · asked by Patrick J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try playing hard to get. Ignore her somewhat blow off things she suggest see what happens.
2006-09-12 18:21:35 · answer #1 · answered by wowwhatwasthat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the first place you already know that she's engaged, don't be blind..she almost make a way for you to see that you don't have a chance either.All you can do is to set her free..let go of her and forget your feelings about her..Begin a new life maybe your not meant for each other...Give up on her becoz' you are not destined for each other..accept the truth and try to put your attention to other girls she's not the only woman in the world if you just open your eyes and your heart you will see...Good luck!!!May you find the right one......
2006-09-12 18:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by vjean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is definitely sending you mixed signals. For your hearts sake, I say just come out and ask her what's up. If she can't give you a straight forward answer and is kind of unsure what she wants, then I say just leave her alone because you obviously have strong feelings for her and I don't think your heart will allow you to just be friends with her.
2006-09-12 18:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is everything, no matter the relationship. Friendship is better than nothing and timing is everything. Be patient, attentive and when the time is right to say, " i've been meaning to ask you about something, do you have a minute to sit and talk with me?" you will know...and she my just surprize you!
2006-09-12 18:25:38 · answer #4 · answered by L C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you try to get with her the farther she will get from your hands.
I recommend you look for someone else you're showing her that your time is not valuable. Show her that your time is valuable by not playing her games and using it more productively. Start by looking for a woman who doesn't have anyone who is SINGLE, has a good attitude, and shows positive signals that she's interested.
2006-09-12 18:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by zebo007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her behavior tells that she like you but if you are sacred write a secret admirer letter to her everday and sip it into her bag or anywhere and do this 1 week and stop writing to her and call her and tell your feelings this wiill surely help you i am 100 % sure
2006-09-12 18:22:58 · answer #6 · answered by tisha s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a nice guy you are. You deserve someone who loves you back. She's out there but not while you are chasing a "player" who is non-commital.
2006-09-12 18:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by kepher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, thats tough.
I would say try moving on ,but still be her friend cuz maybe thats all she wants.
2006-09-12 18:19:58 · answer #8 · answered by Richard R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what's the D lee O. Face to face.
2006-09-12 18:33:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your stupid for trying shes engaged for god sake
2006-09-12 18:26:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋