Well this is a long story but i'll make it short. My boyfriend left me and ened up sleeping with this other girl who new he had a girl friend but wanted him bad so she did not care. Well I left and stayed with my mom for awhile about a month and my ex would come over ever day and bugg me to get back with him put I blew him off. It was hard because we have been together for 3 yrs. Well in the mean time I meet this guy really nice a friend of my uncle we hung out for awhile he took me out every night dinner movies we would go to the bar and he would spend like $200.00 dollers on us at a time. But I felt weird like I was cheating and he got close to me and really cared about me but I really liked him as a friend because I stilled cared for my ex. Yes we did sleep together one night but that was all. It was not good at all I mean his penis was so small he could not ***. I ended back with my ex and hurt him bad. But he still cares for me. Why? How do I say sorry. My ex dont even no anything
2006-09-12 17:52:02 · 14 answers · asked by amy m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop feeling so guilty for what you did. You weren't with your ex at the time. You still have feelings for him just talk it out with him.
2006-09-12 17:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by PROLADY 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are only willing to cheat on someone that you are willing to risk. People cheat because the relationship is lacking in some area, and they are looking for someone or something to fill the void. If you were the right girl for your boyfriend, he would have never risked loosing you. You will most likely always love your boyfriend, but not all loves are good and healthy for us, and not all loves are meant to last a lifetime. You need to let this relationship go, so you can move on and find a man that truly cherishes and loves you and is not willing to risk loosing you. You will never find this kind of love if you continue to settle for an unhealthy relationship with this guy. Breaking up is never easy, and that's why people stay in unhealthy relationships for so long. Move on, and take some time for yourself. Do whatever it is that you need to do to get your self-respect back, take a class, get a new hairstyle, when we look good we feel good. Pick yourself up, and take care of you, in time you will be glad you did. You both deserve to be happy and with someone you'll never risk loosing.
2006-09-12 18:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flowers
2006-09-12 18:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
YOU'RE sorry?! Didn't you both do the same thing, except he did first? If he cares for you still, and you care for him, don't go out of your way to say your sorry in some big way. Just move on.
2006-09-12 17:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by Craiggles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boy do you ever have issues...here's how I read this Trashy Novella:
BF left you.
Slept with someone who liked him.
(Although in your mind it's "OtherG new he had a girlfriend")
HELLO BF left you...and yea he HAD a girlfriend but dumped her.
Suddenly you left then stayed for awhile about a month...huh?
YOU BLEW HIM OFF for a month...ok...but you stood up for your principles, good for you...now what were they again? Oh yea 3 years...
In the mean time, during this month of constantly seeing your XBF who was constantly bugging you yet being blown off, you bumped into your UNCLE who introduced you to ONE OF HIS HOMIES?? (At this point I experienced a need to vomit...)
Again you are hung out for awhile, still blowing the XBF off, this Guy_Friend of Uncle takes you out every night for dinner, movies and a good sloshin at the bars...
Now you felt like a weird cheater allowing him to get close to you and for HIM to really care for you but YOU really liked him (as a friend) because you still cared for your XBF...Now isn't that thoughtful?
AHHHH!! Admission to this XXX admission is $200.00 dollErs (please NEVER forget the change)!
The moment of truth: yea we slept together, but we didn't sleep very well, but we only didn't sleep very well together for one night, honest. No I'm being very serious, we slept fitfully throughout the night because of his small penis. I mean it was all because of his peeny weeny he could not get three stars, and I received my second black eye award, but because of his small penis my left eye wasn't as noticable as my still swollen shut right eye, thank gawd!!
I ended up on my back with my EXB, who had left me, who ended up doing doing this slut who was hot and horney for him, but she knew he had left me and that his title was EXB and i was still his girlfriend, so I somehow or another "hurt him bad" even though he don't "no anything", but still cares for me and my black eyes.
Why?
My reaction/response to this masterpiece of ***
Just say sorry...he don't even no anything...he's clearly the idiot!! Oh yea, no question about it!
P.S. Almost forgot...you should maybe ask your XBF why a small penis ruins a perfectly good night for sleeping, but don't tell him how you know keep him blown off!!
2006-09-12 20:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by Lord Cif 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause a guy with a penis that small will desperately cling to any girl that will sleep with him. good luck shaking him off
2006-09-12 18:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by ytrewq 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him that you are sorry if you ever hurt him and for being and acting the way you did.. and try to talk to him but don't force it or push it cause it will only make it worse ok...
2006-09-12 17:56:09 · answer #7 · answered by Da Q 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
And if his penis was good enough you would have shined on your ex?
2006-09-12 17:55:20 · answer #8 · answered by Motorpsycho 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a bigger penis would have done the trick wouldn't it.shut up already and move on .org
2006-09-12 17:59:03 · answer #9 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if I learned anything from reading that, it's that penis size really does matter
2006-09-12 18:01:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋