i have a crush on a girl at school but I dont know if she likes me, What should I do?
2006-09-12 17:50:17 · 15 answers · asked by Advice Needer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her dude, no is only a word, it'll only hurt for a minute.
2006-09-12 17:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by d0mc6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Start a conversation through a mutual friend or start with a simple hello, or maybe talk about an activity or class you have in common. Talking gets the ball rolling, and how you control the conversations and interactions dictate where the ball rolls to. If she likes you it will be apparent within the first couple of conversations. If shes the quiet type, she may choke up or stutter, lol. But most of the time the girl may just seem really interested in what you do or what your doing. From there (after a few nice conversations, not just hello goodbyes) ask what she's doing for the weekend and if she says she doesn't know yet or she has nothing to do, that's your cue/chance to ask her if she'd want to hang out, maybe catch a movie or dinner with you. Or if you're not comfortable with the solo 1 on 1 path, you could ask her to hang out with you and some of your friends, but make sure there are ppl she knows in your group and a somewhat even mix of girls and guys. I hope this helps.
2006-09-12 18:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by bks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask. That simple if you keep going with well does she or doesn't she, you could miss out on a girl who does. Get it over with, if she says yeah then there you go more time to be with your sweety, if not there's less time of worrying and stressing out and you can go looking for other girls.
Edit- I'm hoping that this applies in that you already know the girl and are talking to her. If not your only taking her at face value and don't actually like her because you don't know her. If you do know her and talk to her go for it. If not and you only like her looks, get to know her and put out of your mind your crush. You never know you might actually not like the way she treats you or people in general.
2006-09-12 17:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by blazingwater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her. See if she likes you as a friend. Don't do anything romantic or weird yet.
Then a few weeks later, if you're friends, start acting like bf/gf - touch her hair or stare at her eyes and see how she reacts. If she likes you'll she'll smile and blush, and you've become a couple. THEN when the moment's right you can kiss her.
2006-09-12 17:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Arbor Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do One Thing
Keep Talkin to Her.
Make her Laugh But Be Serious Sometimes(Show Both Sides of ur Face)
See to it tat u Keep Contact with her
If she Has a Cell phone Keep Msgin her Some Nice Jokes.
If u need nemore advice Keep Askin me
2006-09-12 17:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice to her. Try to speak to her.
If you're like me it will be pretty obvious to her that you have a crush on her. If she likes you she will respond positively. If she doesn't you won't have lost anything.
Chances are she either likes you or has no opinion. If she likes you you can reinforce the feeling. If she has no opinion you can give her a positive opinion by being nice.
2006-09-12 17:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by Warren D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its normal to have a crush but you must focus on your studies first. If you like her and you want to know if she likes you to use your body language....make friends w/ her and as you go on you will know if she likes you too. how? take note of this...
If she's showing her care for you intentionally.
If she doesn't treat her friends the way she treats you.
If she treats you special.
If you ask her to go out and she goes w/ you.
If you ask her a little fav. and she does it.
If she looks at you secretly then probably she likes you too...
2006-09-12 18:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by vjean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, you should, start talking to her, to sort of test her out, then, if you see that she's at least willing to be with you, you will start to be able to tell whether or not she Likes you. Start by saying Hi, that is always good to, whenever you pass her, just say hi, if she smiles, your doing well. Good Luck man !!
2006-09-12 17:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by AJ S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crush is word for little boys and wimps. Approach, court, and propose are the words for gentlemen.
2006-09-12 17:52:52 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to her and ask her out and see what she says. You can use hints also. Just make it seem like you are really interested in her. Talk to her, but in the end ask her out.
2006-09-12 17:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋