I'm talking about the one you want to have children with, and grow old with someday in a committed death do us part relationship.
2006-09-12 17:44:22 · 10 answers · asked by johnny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I thought I did...I thought this woman was my soulmate and that we'd get married.....I had this wonderful feeling inside of me...then it all came to a trainwreck when she decided after so long, she didn't have the "sparks" for me, so you never really know for sure!
2006-09-12 17:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by Damned fan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TIME..SHARE...j
ust like that...
time:
is that thing where we can do what ever we want to....if u want to be with this person most time and u prefer this person over the rest go ahead start sharing time with the person ......when time passes u by and still u still want her...well there might be something between u 2...
So whats next...find out what is it? how?
by.......
sharing:
makes u 2 knowing if u 2 r the right for each other...the more time and different experiences u guys have the best, ull know about each other and how ur willing to stand your "good" and
"bad" things...
getting married, having children is not about a feeling or advised that any outsider can give to u...and that includes me, ur mom, or anybody in this q&a....
getting married should be for life...and is not how u can c her in 10 years...it depends on her too.....is about too people sharing, living and loving it....
after that....sitting....talking about it....think and plan all ur future 2gether....in a realistic and mature way...is what tells u who is the right person...
The one who wants time to grow up 2gether to make a greater and stronger bond before getting married is the one whos not only loving u.....but whos also loving herself....who is being wise...and wisdom is a quality needed in a looooooooonnng relationship like marriage....
dont just jump into it...and please dnt bring kids into the world like that...
study with ur partner
the economic part, the kids, education, if u respect each others oppinion on how to raise a kid...and lots of LOVE....cause behind a good man.......theres a great woman, and how she stand at ur side without interfere in ur career but guide u, and be able to be with u in good and bad... u have to see ... how she behaves towards a difficult situation in ur life....if she goes and sell something of hers cause u need money.......that means she'll be on good and bad times (economically)......are u able to value and appreciate this type of person??? would u do the same for her? not with words but with actions? remember a relationship is a two way lane...
marriage is a bicycle with 2 seats but u both have to pedal...one taking care of the house, you and the kids while ur working...cause that type of women will make u successfull in life and ur career...the one who goes out to work - would need a massage when u need it too....shell want someone to cook for her....not to cook for you and at the begginnig that sharing and bonding is need it....later she can do something xtra out of the house...but at the begginnig u need to make a nest ....and ull have to find a loving woman at ur side....so u can forget about the stress at work.....if she is like an oasis...and u r all the man that she needs.....then u both find the right one...
remember after time-share...not b.s.
ok.........good luck
2006-09-13 02:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by know it all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been asking myself the exact same question. Let me know if you find the answer. Some people say that you will "just know". Maybe when we find the right one we will know because we want have a need to ask this question
2006-09-13 00:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by lindsay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Picture yourself fifty years from today, waking up and looking over in the bed. She's gray and wrinkled and her dentures are on the nightstand - do you still want to take her in your arms and hold her? If so, I think you've found the perfect person for yourself.
2006-09-13 00:47:30 · answer #4 · answered by Discotheque 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is not something that can be explained, you just know.
Only thing I can say is it is when you listen to sappy love songs and understand the meanings and feelings behind the words.
2006-09-13 02:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The one that when you think about her, you think of the worst, and the worst would be living w/o her. (even if she cheats, is not a good housekeeper, etc.) They're is nothing she could ever do that would make you not want to be with her till the end.
2006-09-13 00:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by breaker_1020 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This might not be the one your with cuse your asking this question, trust me you just know! and you never have to force thingsin the relitionship it should just happen naturally.
2006-09-13 00:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by kebbler80011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know if you found the right one if you like kissing the individual. That's it that's all,, la te daa daala
2006-09-13 00:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you dream of her every night.
2006-09-13 00:58:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
by our feeling
2006-09-13 00:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋