that it gives me a huge amount of liberating freedom. I have nobody judging me or imposing thier beliefs. I have creative freedom in my art. If I can be ate peace alone..that would be a great life. I'm not sure if this is possible. i get urges for female companionship but I know that it has always ended in emotional heartache, feelings of guilt, or psychological imprisonment. I want to be free of a social life. I'm only 26 but I'm pretty sure of this. I have no family or friends...so really nobody..just bad relationships
2006-09-12 17:41:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I dont think you realise, but by giving up like that you are sure to gain the trust no-one. Believe in yourself is a good start and realise people do care. I believe that you care about people but because you do not think they love you then you do not return the love. This is what is wrong with so many of our generation and this leads to everyone disliking those around us. You should believe that people care for you, its just hard for some people to show it probably like yourself.
First of all we are as a whole a sociable society and we all need love and support around us. This is what motivates us all. I believe that you should start by showing others how kind and supportive you can be to others. You are in a position to understand how people feel when they are lonely and you can talk about your own experiences when a friend or associate is down. Learn by your mistakes and grow just do not stop growing by cut yourself off. Whether they throw it back in your face should not make you feel bad you but glad that you were there to support them when they needed it.
Look for the good in everything and everyone and the good will come looking for you
2006-09-12 17:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by Gar 7 · 4⤊ 8⤋
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2015-08-06 18:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so young still. Don't give up on human kind yet. Yes, relationships can hurt but they can also bring a lot of joy. When you finally find that person that is right for you, it is well worth everything you had to go through to get to that point. As far as having friends goes, you have have to be a friend to make a friend. What do you like to do? Join a group of people that does whatever you do. I belong to two running groups and an orchestra so there is a lot of potential in my life to have more friends if I want them.
All that said, it is okay fine to be a loner if that is what you want, but most people are happier being around others.
2006-09-12 17:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by runningviolin 5 · 2⤊ 5⤋
I once felt as you do now. I was unaware of how many people did care about me, even total strangers. You will be astonished when you find how many people do care and are concerned about you.
To be brutally honest, I think that you are making the same mistake that I used to make----- sitting on the pity-potty, and need to be a friend to somebody who needs a friend.
Self-pity is optional, and not a good option for anybody.
2006-09-12 17:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 5⤋
The most important person in your life needs to be you. See this webpage all about you and your true relatioship to others. Has info on being happy with advice from top psychologists. What you say is possible but if you only deal with people to help them you, then you will not get hurt. I am helping you but you cannot hurt me since I don't want anything from you.
http://phifoundation.org/happiness.html
2006-09-12 17:54:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
You still have yourself, and that counts for something!
Besides, you are only 26, not 96! You will meet lots of people, so don't give up hope yet!
2006-09-12 17:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by ashcatash 5 · 1⤊ 4⤋
you have to bust those black pity balloons and do so realize that you must love yourself first before anyone can love you back. work on a greater love a love that loves you for who you are no matter what agape love. that is the love God gives. no i am not forcing your beliefs just sharing what helped me. self pity is self destruction, and it does not matter who here on earth is loving you right about now. love you and see what he can give you and show in your heart. true man will turn on you, but you must even trust that there will someday be someone for you. right now get you right cause the pity party does nothing for you but put you deeper in a slumb. you are crying out for something or else you would not have taken the time out to write this. you dont know for sure that no one cares you show off the victim mentality to the females and that pushes them away. you have to be more or more less emotional and telling your all when you first get involved you open up too soon in relationships and expect the same from your companion. be more sure of yourself and stop trying to get validation from others you are worthy to be in society and to have a life just get stronger in your feelings, and your decisions
2006-09-12 17:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 6⤋
Used to feel alot like that but not anymore. You are unique, there is only one of you created out of one cell, it had to be perfect timing. everything you go through is what you need to experience to become all you can be for God. Meditation, quieting the mind and listening for the answers help. We are here to be of service to others, if you get out of yourself and begin doing for others you'll experience more peace, love, serenity that you knew possible! Give it a try.
2006-09-13 01:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by tamara.knsley@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 6⤋
You mean not everyone wants to be a social butterfly??? Now I have become aghast.
2006-09-12 17:52:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
alone works, it is time-tested and true! your assertions will lead to anxiety and anger! that everybody cares about you... that you have a huge amount of liberating freedom... that you have everybody judging you and imposing their beliefs. asking your question alone has ended your social life altogether. whether avoiding a healthy relationship is an acceptable goal is up to you.
2006-09-12 18:12:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋