i recently befreinded a girl on the internet.she is 16 and lives in the US. but i live in india.we started off as freinds via email when she asked me some doubts on masturbation to which i replied. then she gave me her photo and i realized that i was in deep love with her.everyday i would sit in front of the computer waiting for her mail and looking in to her photo. i just thought that we two were made for each other. i expressed my interest to her and she too intially reciprocated as if she was intersted.
then her another mail came to me asking to prove my love for her and that i did not befriend her just not for sex.i cannot lose her or forget her and want to marry only her in the future.
please advise !!
2006-09-12 17:40:59 · 7 answers · asked by sham 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do u think that we can finally get married since we two live quite a far from each other ???
2006-09-12 17:48:37 · update #1
What you are experiencing is "CHEMICAL LOVE".
A consistent number of chemicals are present in the brain when people testify to feeling love. More specifically, higher levels of Testosterone and Oestrogen are present during the LUSTFUL PHASE of a relationship. Dopamine, Norepinephrine, and Seretonin are more commonly found during the ATTRACTION PHASE of a relationship.
2006-09-12 18:06:45 · answer #1 · answered by Excel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be taking this a bit too quick, take some time and let all this action sink into your mind, then take a look at what to do again. My advise at the moment is to get to know her more, maybe call her. Your initial interest is promising, so get to know her better. But take things into perspective. Distance, time, family, etc.. may not always permit love to happen, its sad, but its the truth. I know what your feeling, but you'll understand in time that although you may love someone that seems to be an unforgettable soulmate, there is always someone else you can be with when circumstance does not permit you be with your previous love.
2006-09-12 17:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by bks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that.
from now on, talk only about emotional, mental and spiritual things - leave sex out of the picture, at least untill she feels more secure in your relationship. you can still look at her picture, and perhaps ever masturbate to it, but dont discuss it with her. talk about school, the future, kids, anything and everything BUT sex.
It'll work - trust me.
2006-09-12 17:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by Cherished_Bride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats wrong with the girls in india???
You both are under age for marriage too.
2006-09-12 17:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by LostInReality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Puppy love, get over it. If you really think you love her, get out of India and into her arms.
2006-09-12 17:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good luck.
2006-09-12 17:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her this question
2006-09-12 17:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋