I'm bi-curious, like to imagine, but no ***** yet. I'm an extremely social person in some instances, not so much in others. I have a fiance, who is a man, but he supports me in everything.
I see beautiful women I would love to hit on, but freeze at the idea of approaching them.
Help, please.
if you can, tell me what an experience of the intimate nature is like with another woman. does it change your life?
2006-09-12 17:30:48 · 13 answers · asked by trinityangelmama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I read your question, I looked at your screen name and it say trinity. Think about this before you make a decison on having affair or dating a women. We all have made mistakes in life, but I want you to think about is if you had a daughter and she came home and told you that she wants to sleep or date women, that would hurtful for you. Now, since you think your boyfriend is behind you with this, just so you undestnd he is not on the inside a man wants to love a woman all the way, now that you have this unspoken thing that you want to do, maybe you should think about sho is going to get hurt before you do it.
2006-09-12 17:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by single2mingle22000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so hard to approach another woman...you can't really tell if they would be interested or offended. My only experience was in high school...I was with two friends of mine, a girl and a guy. The girl and I had been friends for years and the guy was friends with my boyfriend's brother. We were all sitting in friends bedroom on her bed and joking around, and the girl and I kissed. It was amazing...nothing tastes better than a girls kiss. We played a little that day with some touching, but it didn't go that far. I wish I had the chance to go all the way with a woman. I'm married now and would never cheat on my husband, but am still always fantasizing about what it would be like. You may want to try a bi-curious friend if you have one. Good luck.
2006-09-13 00:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just go for it. It wont really hurt anything. If she says she's not bi or lesbian then just move on. And an intimate nature with another woman is sort of like it is a with a man i presume but yet different at the same time. Yes being with a woman does change you... I should know im lesbian ^_^ .
2006-09-13 00:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by squall2460 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately I can't tell you how to approach other women b/c I was the one who was more or less aproached by the other woman. She mostly just flirted with me to see if I was open to the idea of being with a woman. I can't say if just flirting will work b/c the other women may not feel the same way you do. I did spend some time with her and it is a little bit different than a guy. (anatomy mostly-obviously. the looks from other people didn't bother me b/c you almost couldn't tell she was a she)
2006-09-13 00:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by AlleyCatt7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. most people won't like this kind of advice.. anyways here you go..
the easiest way for you(a women) to approach women is with a man... If your man supports you then take him out with you and then approach a woman.
Technically its man's job to approach her. and your job is to pick her up. You need to re-assure the fact that she's beautiful and likeable etc etc... after that
Rest of the pick up is same as Man picks a women(like telling her there's X exciting thing at his place... takes her home or whatever it is.. slowly seducing her).
2006-09-13 01:51:26 · answer #5 · answered by direct2leo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all go talk to them but don't flirt with them not just yet. i know your man is supportive and that is important in a relationship. why you have a fiance if you are falling in love with women all the time.. not all beautiful women are bisexual or lesbian . you can say excuse me Mrs. or miss i just wanted to tell you i think you are very beautiful to me.
2006-09-13 00:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by Da Q 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I understand you dont wanna scare someone a way by coming on to strong especially if they're straight, make small talk like you would anyone you arent attracted to and build from there.
2006-09-13 00:33:12 · answer #7 · answered by cvegas229 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ha! I wish every woman would become bi-curious just to see what we have to go through
2006-09-13 00:33:54 · answer #8 · answered by s_e_e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm, i have no experience, but I would have to say that straight women really don't like to get hit on by gay or lesbian women, I really hate it!! I would suggest you to go to a gay or lesbian club.
2006-09-13 00:36:58 · answer #9 · answered by luv_my_lou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look into her eyes for little loner then normal ,touching, try rubing your boob on her arm while talking
2006-09-13 00:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by Richie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋