i just want to hear some opinions.i have been with my fiance for 5 years..i cheated on him 1 time in the first year we started dating, i didnt have sex with anyone it was just a kiss.. but i havent cheated since then. I myself dont think its a true saying.. but i just want to hear some opinions!~?
2006-09-12 17:06:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a saying is just a saying...it's you who controlled your life...so if you cheat again it's not because the saying is true but it's always your choice and your own decision....
2006-09-12 17:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by chona a 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, you can play semantics and use all sorts of verbal ploys to disguise cheating and try to get away... but if you do something that YOU wouldn't want your mate to also do... well, you pretty much know the score without being told or given 1,001 examples.
Can a cheater ever change? Yes. I have. I lost a very good woman (intelligent, hard working, meticulously clean and neat in all her matters, educated, dedicated to the home, honest beyond belief, loyal, thoughtful, kind, loving, etc., etc) and I have learned a very good lesson in life... but it was too late. I learned this "lesson" while I was not cheating but being most faithful... but, in the final analysis, I paid for those misdeeds I thought I had gotten away with from years before.
What would I give now to be with her again? I'd probably give my soul if I had one! I learned my lesson about 20+ years ago and I still pine over my loss.
2006-09-13 00:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no some people change all though it dose seem that most cheaters do keep doing the same things over and over some people never learn! but we cant say that all people who have cheated are going to do it again! it really all depends on who it is and if they have a good heart and they are not really bad people they just make bad decisions and still be a good person i admit ive cheated more than once but since ive been in the relationship im in now i havent ive grown up and realized its not worth it and i did find the one im happy with! as long as your doing the right thing now thats what counts! good luck in your relationship!
2006-09-13 00:24:36 · answer #3 · answered by getagrip_25301 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely not. Stand back and examine why you cheated in the first place? Are you really looking for something else, or was it just one night of satisfying sex? It's 2006 honey, and casual sex is much more acceptible. Most people can't stand the thought of having sex with only one person for the rest of their life.
2006-09-13 01:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by lilqtpie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater.. always a cheater.
the saying goes to prove.. if you cheated once.. it makes you a cheater for life.. doesnt matter if you think you wont do it again.. if you did it once.. whats stopping you the next time.
2006-09-13 00:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jormir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not in your case it was just a kiss i don't think that is cheating so lit it go stop thinking about it it was 2 years ago for get it and think you are happy in love good luck to both of you
2006-09-13 00:14:54 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the person. Some people are faithful while others cheat every day every hour.
2006-09-13 00:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by Totoru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can change.I cheated on my boyfriend 12 years ago when he was in jail and haven't since then.
2006-09-13 01:20:10 · answer #8 · answered by knolley68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A kiss isn't cheating.
Cheating is active, on-going dating with another, leading up to, and including, sex of any caliber
2006-09-13 00:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing I can say is that any relationship is based on trust.If you cannot trust the one you're with your relationship will likely deteriorate over time.
2006-09-13 17:12:04 · answer #10 · answered by gussie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋