I still have feelings for her and it kills me inside. I just want to get over her and I don't know how because I think about her every day and night.
2006-09-12 16:55:12 · 24 answers · asked by Mr. Lonely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So our first 4 months were good, then she wanted to take a break so I thought we were breaking up and I went and tried something with another girl, but nothing happened and I told her and she began to hold a grudge against me. But I really didn't do anything. Then as time went on, we tried working things out and we were kind of on and off. She seems to run back to me every two months. I think that's the longest we've ever seperated and stopped communicating. We were arguing more because she still holds the grudge against me and she's one who takes time to forgive. We got into a big argument one night and she told me she just wanted to be friends. I knew we can't be friends so I told her that we should just stay away from each other and go our seperate ways. I still think about her though. I try and keep myself busy, but she crosses my mind all the time. I think about the past and how we used to be great together. Now I'm heart broken...
2006-09-12 17:05:10 · update #1
Every different relationship is unique....
Unfortunately, time is what heals these wounds... And it could take alot of time.... Try your best not to dwell on her and the good memories... Yes, you've experienced love and all the gifts that can come with it.. But if it's over, you are just beating yourself up emotionally day after day after day.
You know you won't forget her, and she will not forget you... But Life is a long and eventful journey and ultimately it ENDS at some point... You will love again..
2006-09-12 17:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is so hard breaking up with someone you love but I assure you if you just give someone else a chance to help mend your broken heart time does heal all wounds including heart ache. I'm speaking from experience. You are going to find someone so great you just have to be patient and do things that will keep your mind off of her.
2006-09-12 16:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes "time"..unfortunately that old saying "time heals all wounds" is true, annoying but true. Keeping busy, no matter what...work, watching movies or shows that uplift your mood, spending time with friends, walking...anything that takes your mind off of her. Even some counseling tp help you deal with how you are feeling...just so long as you are not alone and allowing yourself to brood and become depressed.
2006-09-12 17:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. You deal with it. Take it from me, I loved a guy for 3yrs (first love). Don't wallow in your sorrow. Keep your mind busy with other things. Try to not think of her as much. It will be hard to do because everything will remind you of her but try. Time will dull the memory of her. One day when you think of her it will be only objectively.
Remember time heal all wounds
2006-09-12 17:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will take a long time you can think of all the bad times you had with her that may help or see if you 2 can sit down and talk it out and get back true love is hard to find so go for it good luck to you
2006-09-12 17:05:24 · answer #5 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no quick fix to this situation. You're going to have to simply endure the long days and give it time. Even though you're feelings for her will more than likely take a long time to fade away, I suggest you 'get back out there' as you might find someone that makes you forget her name.
2006-09-12 16:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, keep busy and widen your mind. The world is big with a lot to experience. Lovers come and go, look forward to what is next in your life.
2006-09-12 16:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by el 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself very busy. Go out with friends, join a gym, take up a hobby, volunteer, do anything to occupy your mind.
2006-09-12 17:00:24 · answer #8 · answered by Izzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time.
2006-09-12 16:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by CoCo-Puffs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By feeling in your own is the best medicine for out come of this type emotion .and time it self is the medicine.
2006-09-12 17:00:59 · answer #10 · answered by Hind K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋