So yeah, I'm here at college and I'm single. Classes certainly aren't the best way to get anyone since I sit next to different people everyday. The girls I meet at parties, although friendly, aren't really girlfriend material seeing as how most of them are drunk or at least getting there.
I would like something more mature and serious (of course I'm not gonna let that out lest I want to freak the girl out), I do live in co-ed dorms but here comes the problem I have in finding people. Everyone has places to go or at where they are and talking already or just studying so...
I don't even know how to start, help appreciated.
2006-09-12 16:36:16 · 18 answers · asked by Hermes711 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are too young for a girlfriend. If you just got to college you are what 18-19, you do not need that. Get through school, get some education and life experience under you belt first. For now Just go to parties and have "fun" (Fun = Sex). Then once you have gone through that for a few years. Around 25-26, consider having a girlfriend... Maybe.
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2006-09-12 16:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Big classes might not be the best place to meet a girl, and bars and parties are out of the question. Do you guys have SI study groups. Its just a bunch of people getting together to study with one person who already took the class and got a good grade. Its more personal and laid back. If you don't have something like that, the people who sit in the front of the class pretty much sit in the same seat all the time. Try sitting up front. If there is a girl you like, try asking the time or for a piece of paper something to strink up some convo. I don't know I'm a girl, I'm not tooo good at how to meet girls....Sorry
2006-09-12 16:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by Pmp18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like the dorm girlfriend thing, 'cause if you ever get serious and then breakup, one of you will most likely have to move. (Otherwise, everyone is feeling the tension.)
Look into the gazillion clubs on campus or sit down with some strangers at the dining halls and strike up a conversation. Forming a study group was also very social.
2006-09-12 16:44:22 · answer #3 · answered by IMHO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Class has always been the best place for me to find girls at school. That and sports, like volleyball. I used to walk around and join games since I was pretty good, and get to know all the people there. The best way is just increase your social network. Find girls that are looking for study buddies.
2006-09-12 16:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a college girl, I'd say try the library, as cheesy as that sounds, there always seem to be groups of girls and random cute girls just sitting down reading. Also, maybe try local hangouts, like coffee shops? If none of those work, try the interenet. Try posting on craigslist and see if you can get some decent responses. Good luck =)
2006-09-12 16:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by drumlove56 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know girls in class. they aren't drunk and just be yourself. Don't try to get the "super dude" that is really cool. Just talk to them and try to ask questions about them that they have to think about to answer. Not just where did you go to high school, but more like why did you choose (college) over another university? If they are athletic ask them about playing sports. Just tell people that you really don't know many people at your school and find out where is a neat place to hang out. Just get to know people, then it will just happen. Maybe ask them to a game or to somewhere where there are people. You don't want to force a date early, but just a time to hang out. anyway, good luck.
2006-09-12 16:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by Baseball 26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, class is a great place to meet someone! even if you don't sit by the same person everyday, you could start by sitting next to someone of interest. just start a convo (not during lecture, hehe) about the class..and if it goes well, then you certainly can sit next to each other each class period. just be natural and cool....but class is definitely a great place to meet that someone. also the cafeteria and any socials your school might have are good places too. i "met" my boyfriend in the caf, kinda....we used to check each other out in there all the time...*reminisces*...well, good luck!
2006-09-12 18:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Preserve attempting? Why now not? Like some ladies would say to a simply excellent dude. "it will be a shame if you did not have a lady friend." one day she's going to come and if it isn't before university. You would meet a woman in tuition. The ones that you can take learning. Grasp in there, when she comes you're going to comprehend it.
2016-08-09 14:19:39 · answer #8 · answered by jaspal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u really have to do is be urself and let urself out there. just have this fun spontaneous character and be friendly..im sure more people would definitely take time to know you better. and then i guess it starts from there. just be the one to always start up conversations. they will think of u as intellectual. and who knows u may even find someone who loves engaging in conversations and there u have it! a more serious and mature relationship starts.
2006-09-12 16:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by carmenn4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a club or two that sparks your interest. I didn't have too many friends my first semester, then I joined our gaming club and ended up with a ton of really close friends. I met my boyfriend through the club, too. I wasn't really looking for anyone, but we just kind of fell into each other's laps and it was the best accident that ever happened!
2006-09-12 16:40:21 · answer #10 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋