There's this guy I met on a cruise that works on the ship. He is getting my sister and I visitor's passes to go onboard the ship this weekend. We've been talking on the phone since the trip, that was in July and we want to have sex when we see each other. While on the trip we were together a lot and made out, etc. We didn't have sex then because my parents were there and it would've been awkward. So anyways...should I do it or not?? P.S. I'm a virgin.
2006-09-12 15:31:04 · 25 answers · asked by Hilda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I were you I would make sure you really care and love this guy first before you have sex. If you make the mistake of giving your virginity up with someone you hardly know later on you may regret it. I think you should get to know him better before having sex and make sure you really want it. Think about how you will feel about yourself if you do it.
2006-09-12 15:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by lori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you know that sex and marriage come together. You can not have one without the other. Sex without marriage is called fornication. To avoid fornication, better find a wife or a husband. Marriage is honourable and bed is undefiled. Since you claim that you are a virgin, then you better not play games with guys. Virginity is the precious gift that a woman can give to her husband on their wedding day. If you want your future husband to honor you, then you better take care of your body, not to misuse it or abuse it in the name of pleasure. A woman who retains her virginity retains honor. The answer is you should not do it unless you two get married.
2006-09-12 22:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first question I would ask u is are u legal, if u are and u really like him and believes that theres a future with him then u should, if u don't see him sticking around 4 long then keep that honey padlocked between ur legs till the right johndoe comes along.
2006-09-12 22:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by Raycheal D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should. You are a virgina and that's a beautiful thing. It is very rare these days to even know a virgin. Your are precious. If I was a virgin (and a woman) I would wait until someone totally worth it came along and married me before I would give it up.
2006-09-12 22:35:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you like the guy well if you do you should have sex with him im 13 and im not a virgin but if you really like or even love him you should its fun and everyone should have a chance at love no matter where, who, how old or anything so go 4 it!!!
2006-09-12 22:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by FrozenCyclone Xmen Rule 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT!! cant you see all he wants is pleasure from you for himself???? he is selfish and a jerk!! Its obvious that he doesnt want to get serious!! I wont be surprise to know if he told his friends abt you and making you sound like a whore to his friends and the next minute, your no. is being pass around and you dont even know what he has been telling or going on... please it happened to my friend once and she is miserable until now...she wished it never happened but it did and nothing can change that! please before it happen to you... get your mind straight and think abt it as a long term then just out for short period of thrills!
2006-09-12 22:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by Faradoves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your asking so I'm telling. Don't do it. Do you know how many other chics he must of gotten passes for before he met you?? Not only that, it's not special. Wait if you can.. What does your sister say? But if you do decide to please remember to be protected.
2006-09-12 22:38:23 · answer #7 · answered by bridgeandtunnelgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hilda, Sailors have earned their reputation.
Sailors used to talk about having a girl in every port.
He just wants to put you on his score card.
Don't be an idiot. Stay home.
2006-09-12 22:37:37 · answer #8 · answered by GreenHornet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first is a time to remember, so make sure it's with someone who really matters and that you are truly ready for it. If you have to ask, chances are you're not ready yet.
2006-09-12 22:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by Nixxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since u r a virgin,,,,think BIG.Go for it when u get a guy of ur standard.I dont think he's the best for u.
2006-09-12 22:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋