I'm kinda dating this guy. He's fat and ugly and I detest him.
I want to have a go with this hot 53 year old sex bomb.
Do you think it would work if I told Fatty McFatBoy that he's too old for me? (I'm 20, he's 27) Think he would buy it?
Or would he know I was lying?
FATGUY.
2006-09-12 15:01:16 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Advicemom -- we started dating because my friends dared me.
2006-09-12 15:03:16 · update #1
I think you're incredibly shallow if the only thing you can think to mention about this guy is what he looks like. Also, I would have serious concerns about a man who is willing to have sex with someone less than half his age. He's almost old enough to be your grandfather. You may be over the legal limit (barely), but it's very close to pedophillia.
2006-09-12 15:10:39 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're just a mean little child that needs to grow up , and NOT by dating an older man. You're playing with peoples' feelings ,so while you are detesting the dare b/f , I have a feeling we'll see you on here ,asking for advice because the shoe is on the other foot. What goes around comes around. GL @ the school of hard knocks.
2006-09-12 22:10:47 · answer #2 · answered by ridingthestorm_out 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't seriously be this shallow! My first reaction is that you should tell him that you are incredibly shallow person and that you do not wish to date him any more as he deserves better.
Pretending you are truly that shallow, you should not lie to your current dating person about him being too old. That just sounds like a lie. If you are "kinda" dating, just tell him that you are too busy. If you are really dating, them just tell him that you would like to see other people, although you would like to remain on friendly terms with him even if you are no longer dating. From what your question says, he has done nothing to deserve being lied to or being mean to.
"A hot 53 year old sex bomb" - can you say middle aged man going through his second childhood? Can you say old enough to be your father? He wants "arm candy" and if that is all you want to be - some young thing to feed his ego, then you really deserve each other.
2006-09-12 22:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been dating that guy??
that is really fu**ed up though cause people like to feel wanted and if you went out with him on a dare!! just imagine how you would feel if you really liked this guy and hes only dating you because of a dare...
dont tell him hes too old for you because the 53 year old is 23 years older compared to the other guys 7 years....
thats really ****** up to mess around with somebody's feelings like that....
2006-09-12 22:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all only a silly dumb young twit would date someone and continue to date someone on a dare. Secondly, How would you feel if someone did that to you. You just need to politely tell him you really don't want to keep seeing him and that it is nothing personal. Then stay away from the old man, he must be a perv.
2006-09-12 22:09:17 · answer #5 · answered by up2sumpthun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) you should of never started dating someone on a dare.
2) if you didn't like his appearance then you shouldn't have let him believe you liked him
3) if you really feel you have to dump him for whatever reason, even b/c he is fat, you should just tell him you feel you are not growing together as you had hoped.
4) if you feel you need the older man, regardless of him being a sex bomb or not.
5) it's not fair to the guy you are with now, to tell him in any way he is just too fat for you.....be nice, since you are being petty
6) i hope your sex bomb is all you hope him to be
7) remember not to date on a dare, you see where it got you this time.
~Peace~
2006-09-12 22:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by no_doubt! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think so negatively about Fatty McFats, I'm sure he already knows it. But don't lie about the age thing. Its a lot easier to be truthful (with tact!!) and let him know that you're not happy wiht him and want to move on. You lie about the age thing and you'll end up getting busted with the father figure's tounge down your throat by Fatty McFats.
2006-09-12 22:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by April M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh... karma is going to take a chunk of your .... 53????!!!! You want to go out with a guy who is 33 years older than you????!!! doesn't it occur to you that he may think you're too young for him??? Like 33 years younger? Is all that you want from him, his di? Why? And does he even like you that way? He will put you way down and in the end you are gonna feel like shhhh.... nice move honey, you are going to suffer from your own choices...
2006-09-12 22:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've obviously written this question for a reaction and want everyone to get upset that you're after your granddad's friend and have called somebody "Fatty McFatboy". Surely you could've thought up something better? Or else you really are a mean individual...
2006-09-12 22:05:13 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
lo tell a 27 yr old u wanna dump him for a 53 yr old sex bomb,,hahahahahahahaha
2006-09-12 22:03:21 · answer #10 · answered by blwatson41 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋