I dont understand why guys never try to talk to me when I go out to parties etc.. they stare so hard and break thier necks... even the ones with wives... I'm a very pretty girl long hair, nice body and people often say i look Niaomi Campbell or Tyra Banks.... why guys never say anything to me I dress very nice everyday nice hair and not too much make up I'm 5'10 too talk maybe?
Help me out a little
2006-09-12 14:57:18 · 24 answers · asked by Tee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a lot of guys r intimidated by gorgeous women. yep, i used 2 b one of 'em. And by the way u talk and describe urself, i'd say u r a beautiful chica. The guys that r "scared," will b the one's that will always feel insecure about what they say, do, etc. (4 me, i wouldnt want that in a chica). The problem is not you, its them. I'm tellin u this now, there will b at least 1 guy that will have the balls 2 confront u. That guy has confidence. He will make sure both of u have a fun time wherever and whenever.
2006-09-12 15:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably do like you but are just too shy to say so! Girls aren't the only ones who get shy. In fact, guys tend to freeze up even more because all the pressure is on them. They face rejection every time they approach a girl and that can be hard to deal with. And since you are pretty, perhaps they think you're already taken?
Next time you're at a party and see a guy looking at you, try to make eye contact and smile. If he returns it and smiles, go over and introduce yourself! If he's not interested, you haven't lost anything and you can go on to someone else. Best of luck to you!
2006-09-12 22:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by Avie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you look like tyra banks then that's probably the problem right there. Well actually very few people look as bad as her so I doubt you have to worry. Try making the first move, if you see a guy staring at you like you say you do just go up and start a conversation. Not too hard.
2006-09-12 22:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hahaha sis, nothing to worry abt it...maybe they thought you are too good looking for them...they are afraid, if they ask you out or your number, they might embarassed themselves because they think you will not be interested in them... And most boys will think that pretty girls are arrogant people compared to the average ones... so try to talk to them... maybe they are just shy to talk to you, scared or just dont know how to open up a convo with you... why not you try to make the first move and talk to them... dont worry abt anything... i can assure you things will go smoothly after that.... good luck!
2006-09-12 22:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by Faradoves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're really that drop-dead gorgeous, they probably are intimidated by you. When they look at you, smile. They'll get the hint. Also, why don't you try talking to THEM? Guys like girls who think they're interesting, and if you're as pretty as you say you are then I'm sure you'll not have any more problems if you just put out the "i'm available" vibe. Good luck.
2006-09-12 22:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by Samwise Potter 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok, so you've defined how you look. Now the REAL question is, how do you ACT?
Remember, Beauty is only skin deep. Think about your personality and try to reflect on that a little more than just outward appearance.
If a guy comes at you because of how you look, then it ain't gonna be such a great relationship. BUT, if he comes to you because of your persona, then you're set.
2006-09-12 22:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by AJAY 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im not sure what to think...I would say, if you have that problem, just go introduce yourself to someone at the party your at, say a friendly hello, and find ways to begin conversations . Once people see you are there to socailize im sure if anyone is intimidated by your looks, they will come up and say hello
2006-09-12 22:00:51 · answer #7 · answered by zeakster01 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes if a girl is really hot it can be intimidating. Also, if you're just a complete introvert, and have a invisible shell around you, it can be hard for someone to break thru.
2006-09-12 21:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by Poppies_rule 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe your looks are unapproachable. Nobody wants to be rejected. So if you're TOO good looking, then the average guy won't even try. Why not go talk to them?
2006-09-12 21:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by Tall Blonde Spaz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It ain't about your looks Hun and its not that you are a bad person you just ain't find that someone yet .My mom told me this and every since then i known it to be true someone is looking at you , you just don't know it yet but someone is looking at you and for that matter you don't know who it is and you don't know if he is your future husband or not but you have to continue on being your self and always know that someone is coming to you because there's someone for everyone
2006-09-12 22:03:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋