well i like this guy, but hes in 12th grade, which is a bit of an age difference. but i really really like him. and the other thing is, hes not that great looking. should this matter? hes really sweet. plus, hes never had a girlfriend before.
2006-09-12 14:55:38 · 12 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has never had a girlfriend before then you should be able to snag him easily. Looks don't matter, it is what is inside that counts. But be prepared, if he has never had a girlfriend before he may well be gay, so be sensitive and don't humiliate him if it turns out he is.
2006-09-12 15:10:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, people usually need to be attracted to the person they are with. It's human nature. I don't know how old you are. So, I don't know if the age difference is an issue or not. If you're under 17, you're probably too young for him. Especially if he expects more than a friendship from you. If you're his first girlfriend, maybe it'll be different, I don't know. It's nice that you like his personality over his looks though. I hope it works out for you both.
2006-09-12 22:02:17 · answer #2 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you get older the age gap gets greater in relationships, 4-10 years is very common. Looks aren't everything just as long as there's a good physical attraction. Personality is much more important in keeping a relationship. Find shared values and priorities, a best friend. Good luck!
2006-09-12 22:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by Thomas C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks do not matter,what inside of there heart & soul does,if you saying he ent that good looking can you go in public with this fello without feeling embarass or having your family & friends laugh at your choice??Age do matter when a girls older than a guy in a realationship, it don't last,people have d world of -ve things to say besides stasistics has it that d guy always dump their older "woman" for younger meat.keep your head on cause looks can be deseveing..besides nows time to study bout your education & not boys.Good Luck!!!!
2006-09-12 22:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by krazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all how old are ya honey? Well anywayz if u like the guy and if he's sweet then pursue a relationship with him..looks aren't everything..I mean some of the hottest guys are the biggest jerks..so yea just talk to him and see what happens..let him know that u like him.
2006-09-12 21:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, looks does not matter in a relatinship. but if you are hung up on looks then it will be an issue. If you like this guy then take the time to get to know him as a person and you will see that his looks has nothing to do with his heart.
2006-09-12 22:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by Rosa C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks don't matter. Age may matter, if there's a big difference, and both people are young. For older adults, age doesn't matter.
2006-09-12 21:59:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No look s don't matter at all, you already see something special in him, go for it, and the fact that he has never had a girl is more reason to tell you that he will take care and treat you right.
2006-09-12 22:00:10 · answer #8 · answered by chula1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks do matter, but not in the general sense. Someone who is conventionly homely could be outstandingly beautiful in the eyes of the person who loves them. When you love someone or even like them you don't see their flaws and if you do, it usually doesn't matter all that much.
2006-09-12 21:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by Becky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually it's not about the looks or the personality it's all about the attraction you feel toward each other.. it all starts with attraction!!
age doesnt matter as long as you're both matured and are willing to do sacrifices and compromises for the sake of your relationship..
2006-09-12 22:03:15 · answer #10 · answered by keiCh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋