He is a little immature... ok really immature, he is one of my good friends and he likes me a lot. He gets jealous when I talk to other guys but when I ask him if he wants to go out, he always says he doesnt have enough money. We havent hung out at all and this is the 3 week of dating him. We have nothing in common except for the fact that we sort of like eachother. When he is with his friends he acts like a jerk... Also, my x is gay and my bf thinks that I like him because he doesnt know my x is gay. Apparently I flirt too much with him. I think I should dump him but I dont know if I will regret it or not. What should I do?
2006-09-12 14:39:35 · 16 answers · asked by Hotdivababe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If thats all you two have in common is just liking each other sort of.. then why go thru the agony. If he is acting like a jerk when he is around his friend... then let him and go your merry way. Life too short to be miserable. So. let him go and be immature. You dont need that in your life. Find someone who will treat you nicely all the time, friends around or no friends around.
2006-09-12 14:44:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, take it from someone who knows what your talking about. DUMP HIM! If you havent hung out, you dont really know each other. If he gets jealous easily, he wont let you see your friends more then him. And that fool shouldnt act nasty to you around his friends! Dump his sorry butt, teach him a lesson!
2006-09-12 21:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by Mayday Cay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like he's your boyfriend, except in name only. It's only been three weeks and already you are having these issues. I can promise it won't get better. The beginning of the relationship is when the guy is on his best behaviour, trying to impress you. If he's like this now, imagine what he'll be like when he stops trying to impress you. Dump him now. You've only lost three weeks to this guy, don't let it be three years.
2006-09-12 21:43:19 · answer #3 · answered by Mom of 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being in ur position already , I realize that there will never be anything more than friendship between u 2 because unless he grows up he will always be a d#*# lol and u will be the only serious one so hell yeah dump him.
2006-09-12 21:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by Raycheal D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first talk to him --head on-- and get the story straight with your boyfriend, not letting him interrupt or comment you till you finish talking about everything that needs to be said, including the immaturity maybe. see what he says then and then make your decision then. good luck 8]
2006-09-12 21:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by thegirldownstairs[♥] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like far more trouble than he is worth. The bottom line is that it sounds as though he is not really making you happy. I say don't waste the pretty on someone who doesn't appreciate it.
2006-09-12 21:42:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... all i can say is talk to him about it.... tell him how you feel... if he doesnt change then yea i would dump him... ive had this exact experience... minus the gay x.... but yea do what u think is right
2006-09-12 21:42:47 · answer #7 · answered by dashhound_91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like a bad habit
2006-09-12 21:42:39 · answer #8 · answered by timjim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your this unhappy 3 wks I say end it. That way you might still be able to salvage the friendship.
2006-09-12 21:43:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him another shot and if he blows that then dump him good luck.
2006-09-12 21:41:54 · answer #10 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋