2006-09-12 14:12:19 · 18 answers · asked by Sam L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, this is the very best answer you'll ever get: don't ask her! Seriously, the best relationship comes when you continue to spend time with her, but increase the level of intimacy. Get closer to her, emotionally, and physically.
start off by checking to see if she has a boyfriend. hang out with her and her friends just by doing school activities. ask to sit with her during lunch. get to know her, and eventually, ask if she's on hi5 or myspace. through that, you can find out her email, and find out if she's single by looking at her profile ( http://hi5.com or http://myspace.com ). with email, you can get her phone number.
as you spend time with her, little light touches on her arm, hair, face, neck, leg, and thigh will send sparks flying up her spine and make her body tingle if done right, and this will increase sexual energy. put your arm around her while watching a movie.
Don't even bother complimenting her. That's not original when it's done just to flatter her. do it only if you mean it.
spend more time with her, and get to know her even more. then, if it seems like she's curious as to why you're getting closer, be honest: "You're really special to me."
eventually, after you've sent her signals and gotten her signals enough to know you're ready, ask her what she's doing the coming weekend. eventually, just tell her: "I really think we should watch a movie and then do dinner this weekend, just to get to know each other a little more". make sure you get as close as you can to the way it's worded here.
leave it at that, and see where it goes. get her phone number after, to confirm time, date, and place. after the date, arrange an other. you don't even have to call this a date the first few times (just say "I just thought we should get to know each other more - I think you're a pretty cool girl" - , which is why this is so easy!
whatever you do, NEVER say "will you go out with me", or "will you be my girlfriend". in your case, pick-up lines aren't what you need, since they don't ever sound natural enough to be fair to someone who you've only talked to occasionally. keep it real.
so the key my friend is to become closer to her. closeness is one thing you can count on to make a "you and me" into a 'we'.
is this worth best answer?
2006-09-12 14:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by techronarrow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi. whatever you do, DON'T make your move while she still has a boyfriend. It will cause major problems if she cheats on her boyfriend with you. Let her know you like her without saying it straight out, and at the same time emphasize that you would never pursue a girl with a boyfriend. Also, play up how you would treat a girl well so that she will know that she'll be happier with you; tell her she deserves someone to make her happy. Depending on how long this girl has been with her boyfriend, you might need to take it slow. Otherwise you could end up being the rebound guy.
2006-09-12 14:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well...you could convince her that you're the one for her. But definitely do not come on to her while she is still attached. By that I mean like make out or stuff, that's cheating and your relationship will be off to a shaky start. Tell her exactly what your question states. Ask her if she is happy with him, and tell her how you feel. See it's so simple ;)
....easier said than done huh?
2006-09-12 14:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by Missy chandrasekar 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you want something bad enough you will find a way to get it so if she's really the girl you want do anything you can to get her even if it does mean her and her boyfriend breaking up because it will only make her happier if she isn't happy in the relationship anyways...
2006-09-12 14:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let her know that you like her with out coming on too strong and she will make a move if she really isn't happy in her relationship.
2006-09-12 14:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you can ask her one thing if shes not happy why is she still with him oh you should not do anything let her break up with her boyfriend first then start talking to her in ways other than being friends and if she likes you shell go with you if not sorry
2006-09-12 14:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by brownbeads 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Be the "comforter" until sh*t hits the fan! You are the shoulder to cry on BUT express your feelings as soon as it does or she'll move on to another rebound!
2006-09-12 14:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, Listen, Listen, she will one day think, gee this guy has such a sympathetic ear. And to women this is a hugh
plus. Good Luck and I hope she turns her eyes to you!
2006-09-12 14:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait it out...be a friend to her not the guy that trys to push up on her and try to make her leave her boyfriend.
2006-09-12 14:14:48 · answer #9 · answered by cutie 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Leave her alone because if she wasn't really happy with him she'd leave him.
Who's to say she won't do the same thing to you once she gets "un-happy" with you.
2006-09-12 14:14:10 · answer #10 · answered by kvsmiller 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋