2006-09-12 14:10:12 · 20 answers · asked by kim m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him to go away for a weekend with you and your parents.
2006-09-12 14:12:53 · answer #1 · answered by deangelis88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down, talk to him, like adults, and ask him, ,
"No pussyfooting around - are you seeing someone else, Yes or No?"
The "Yes" or "No" options are crucial. When he answers, because you know this guy well, you'll have a gut feeling if he is telling the truth or not. Any shred of doubt, then ask yourself if you want to continue this relationship.
I broke up with my first ever love based on suspicion alone. I knew that, as much as it tore me apart,it hurt more always not knowing where he'd been and him not telling me anything. I could not live like that. Moreover, I had more respect for myself and he didn't deserve me!
Now I've found someone who I have total confidence in with everything he does. It's when we go through dialogue to iron out any insecurities we have that I fall deeper in love with him.
Start a relationship as you mean to go on - with trust.
2006-09-12 22:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by 675 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you and homeboy got some trust issues. Maybe you should check your heart first and then proceed to find out in an open manner what's going on with him. You don't want to have to play "secret agent" with someone that you are suppose to love.
2006-09-12 21:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a girlfriend one time that didn't have an e-mail address, so i taught her how to do it. I help her sign-up then i made sure i answer her secret question. Months and years passed until this day she still doesn't know big brother watching her back!!!!
Oh u know what else, I'm her cyber lover that she didn't know!!!! lol lol lol
2006-09-12 21:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by Mafioso 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT would be obvius but maybe ASK him. See what he says. Maybe if he goes out a lot at weird times and won't just say where he is going or why. Don't accuse till you have a reason to I figure.
Maybe say, my vagina is tingling in a wierd way, should I get it checked. See what he says.
2006-09-12 21:14:58 · answer #5 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one way is when he gets home from being out were u think he may have been out cheatin as soon as he gets home tell him u wanna have sex then proced to give him oral while your down there take a sniff it it smells fishy then somehtin fishy is going on.
this is no way meant to be rude or anything just plain oold truth
2006-09-12 21:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by ssuter1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask his other girl friend now and you will skip out all of the messy stuff later. If he is making you feel like this, then its probably true!
2006-09-12 21:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by toonarmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a feeling that he is cheating on you, then there is strong chance he might be. keep on your p's and q's. look out for what used to normal that now appears to be abnormal.
2006-09-12 21:15:15 · answer #8 · answered by luvmuzik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a private eye to tail him.
2006-09-12 21:15:40 · answer #9 · answered by PEP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to bother about it. He will make a slip soon enough then Bang... you got him.
2006-09-13 03:24:07 · answer #10 · answered by pinochio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋