And then my brother said that he going to run away!!This happend tonight and i was sooo scared that the would start hitting each other or somthing.I know that this might sound weird but i dont know what to do?Pleease Help!
2006-09-12 14:01:08 · 9 answers · asked by dreamy457@verizon.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You can't change your dad or your brother, you can only take care of yourself. Do you have a close relationship with either of them? If so, they might listen if you explained how it scares you when they fight like that.
If not, it is probably best to not try and interfere. You might want to try and find an adult that you trust to talk to about how you are feeling. Is your mom still around? Is there anything she can do to help you? Or, is there a friend's parent or teacher who you feel safe talking to?
2006-09-12 14:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by Obi_San 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate fighting.
What you need to do is figure out what your brother and dad fight over. See if they can work it out in some way-maybe they need to talk it out or get professional assistance.
When they fight, tell them to stop. Shout as loud as you can, "STOP!!" They might not realize that the fighting scares you. If they fight constantly and your brother is really considering running away-then bring in the professionals, call the police.
2006-09-12 21:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little bit too much testosterone in the room. Dad is jealous. This is not your problem, it is your dads and your brother has to deal with it. All you have to do is leave the room or the house if you have too.
2006-09-12 21:20:49 · answer #3 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CAll 911 and report it so no one gets killed... Tell your teacher or counselor what is going on... They may help you get intervention for you family... Tell some relatives and let them know how badly this is bothering.. You don't deserve to live like this....Make sure you tell your father that you want this to stop or else.... You deserve a peaceful safe life and your father is not providing it for you so don't worry about telling on him.. He needs help.. I bet anything booze is involved...Totally...NOT YOUR FAULT.. YOU ARE THE VICTIM HERE....
2006-09-12 21:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by Lea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadly this happens in alot of families.Maybe you can talk to a school councilor or maybe talk to your dad and tell him how scared you become when they fight like they do.maybe that will open his eyes a bit,and stop the fighting and figure out another way to figure out there problems.
2006-09-12 21:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
must be puberty thing my son is 16 and supposedly hates his dad, it will pass when he gets older/ or matures I hope, life is to short you never know when he will dye and he will feel bad about saying that and not spending time with him.I lost my dad almost a year ago. he was loved very much by his children and grandchildren and he knew it.
2006-09-12 21:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a really bad situation.If they start to fighting,try to get help from your friends,neighbours,and the best the police.Take care yourself.Good luck.
2006-09-12 21:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun the best thing at this point you can do is stay out of it. i know you didn't wanna hear that, but its the best thing to do,if it gets to (bad) then yes you need to call 911 to intervine good luck hun stay safe!
2006-09-12 21:04:50 · answer #8 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing you can do but pray! and maybe speak some sense in their heads.
2006-09-12 21:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋