Up to 3 weeks ago, it has been a little over a year since I last seen her. We meet again during a funeral for her sister. She texted me and wanted to come and see me: I said yes. She is 20 yrs younger than me. I have known her since she was 5. I am not related, but I have been very close to the whole family for over 20 yrs. When she was 16, I became very attacted to her, but I was a gentleman and never let her know. I am in love with her still. Anyway, I don't know if its because she was greiving or if she cares for me - we made love when she visited. There is a small distance (in miles) between us, but I am having difficulity communicating with her(we talk, but not as much I like).What should I do?
2006-09-12 13:56:22 · 11 answers · asked by gteelndlw 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok so this is great because i know EXACTLY what u feel! i am 18 and last year i feel in love with someone 21 years older than me! i was greiving at the time we started to talk but it was the best thing that ever happened to me! take it slow... you dont know how she will react when it comes to the word "love"! im not scared but thats me! you just need to let her know that you will always be there for her! and that you deeply care for her! its a little bit of both greif and care! you are growing on here and you make her feel secure because you are a stable man! I hope that it work out for you two! Im sure it will!
2006-09-12 14:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by heyThere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from this 20-25 yr old woman. You are old enough to be her daddy. Shame on you! You were at least 36 when she was 16. Talk about robbing the craddle! You sound like you have some major problems. I would suggest talking with a counselor. Quick get a life and leave small girls alone. How long have you had this problem? Does the family know? How long did you carry on this sick attraction for her?
2006-09-12 21:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stand up, look at your self in the mirror, and high five yourself, way to go (20 years younger)
Seriously, you should give her space and you should be up front with her and ask her what her feeling toward you really are. People sometimes make irrational choices after a tramic experience.
2006-09-12 21:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by MT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK first of all this is a lil weird your 20 yrs apart thats a lil weird lol and 2nd talk on da phone or sometin
2006-09-12 21:04:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if its only like 20- 40 miles difference maybe you should move by her then just drive to work.
2006-09-12 21:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by ..<3.. Green_pixie ..<3.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 years younger than you? You old pervert.
2006-09-12 20:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
what you have to do is you have to ask out her and see what she says. if she say yes then there you go but if she says no then your luck is gone. trust me i know when a boy likes me. trust me i am a girl and lots of boys did it to me.
ask her out if she says yes start hanging out then ask for her phone number.
well i hope that gives you lots of information and helps you out of your love problems
2006-09-12 21:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by rrmbuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm illl u to grown get someone ur own age come on now
2006-09-12 21:02:57 · answer #8 · answered by thicknjuicybitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest to her that you want a serious relationship with her.
2006-09-12 21:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by Cormac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use your chances, lose that pride!
2006-09-12 21:01:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋