A friend of mine had a housewarming type thing and he invited his coworkers. This hot girl was there and we talked for most of the night and I even saw her stare at me from the distance, just like kept staring with this look in her eye. She would even end her statements with "hmm" or "mmm hmm".
Then I was leaving,
She said "Aww, you're leaving" and I tried talking to her some more but I had to go. Then I contemplated to myself , "Did I blow it?"
To tell you the truth, even though I was attracted to her, I didn't muster up enough guts to ask for her number.....I usually have no problem talking to women. I get nervous at times, but we all do.
Do you think I should have trusted my intuition that didn't propel me to say anything else to her and move on, or blame myself for missing out on a romantic opportunity.
For the record though, any time I missed out on an opportunity with a woman, I realize that I was nuts have made sucha big deal
2006-09-12 13:56:19 · 5 answers · asked by axelf57 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BTW, my friend knew I liked her but when I asked if he could mention something to her at work, like ask her about me he was like "I can;t do that dude".
Apparently he said that it wasn't professional. I've known him for 13 years and even though we weren't always close, I kind of find that a little bit of a bad excuse.....People do a lot worse at work that ask someone about someone else to gget answers.....
2006-09-12 13:58:26 · update #1
For future reference, you probably should have tried it -- since if she turned you down, how would things now be any different than if you never asked?
The best thing that you could have done is act as if you were leaving, and then turn around and ask, as an afterthought, "Oh, let me have your e-mail so that we can keep in touch". While she's writing that down, you can say as a after though, might as well give me your number too.
Keep her guessing as to whether you want her or not. Some women think that mystery is intriguing; being too obvious is unattractive.
But don't worry too much about it -- there will be other hot women sooner or later.
2006-09-12 14:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, don't sweat it. Once you find the one true soulmate for life, you see how it just happens and takes very little work and second guessing. Then you realize that every other woman beforehand was just a waste of time. Same for you girls out there, don't look so hard. The right one will come along. Just enjoy your life as it is until it changes on it's own.
2006-09-12 21:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by jp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go so hard on yourselfe there will be other girls and she's just one maybe if you like see her somewhere or ask your friend for her number or something if you really want to see her again theres always ways to get a hold of her
2006-09-12 20:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him for her phone number or go through his phone if you remember her name. crazy idea but then again LOVE makes us do crazy things good luck;)
2006-09-12 21:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend just doesn't want to blow it for you. or she says she doesn't. Maybe you did blow it. Maybe you didn't just call her and talk and hook up!
2006-09-12 21:06:19 · answer #5 · answered by ..<3.. Green_pixie ..<3.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋