What an i do? i stay up nights crying, and he just walked all over me. i try to get mad, but then it hurts soooooooo bad and i have to see him everyday. just thinking about him hurts my heart. i am feeling physical pain, it hurts so bad.
2006-09-12 13:53:23 · 10 answers · asked by D L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No one in this world is worth you getting sick or dying for. In the only case, a son or daughter is the only one I would give my life for. Of course it hurts, but the more you dwell in self pity, the longer it will take to get over him. Don't go jump into another relationship either. It doesn't solve anything and you will be just as miserable. Try reinventing your life. Meet new people, make new friends, go out and have fun
but don't committ. After a while you will meet someone new but you will have the experience of last one and you will be able to pick and select the right one for you.
2006-09-12 14:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by Sylvia P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby Girl,
Keep focus! I know how you feel. Its going to be really hard but in time you will be better. Surround yourself with positive people and don't let your hurt or anger make any decisions for you. If you don't have one, keep a journal/diary to help express your feelings if you don't want people in your business. Remember that self matters and you are important! Allow yourself to forgive but don't forget, thats the only way you can truly heal. I don't want to sound mean but **** him. He will get his in the end. Just don't let him see that you are hurt. Smile and keep your head up.
Remember its his loss
2006-09-12 14:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by trice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think that if you are staying up nights crying for what ever reason,then you shouldn't even be in that relationship to begin with.sounds like for you like a love hate relationship.what man is even worth that much pain anyways.Move on so that you can be happy and so that you can start to heal.
2006-09-12 13:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals everything....Try to keep yourself busy, don't think about anything, if you find yourself doing nothing, go out with friends or do something you enjoy doing, something that doesn't allow you to think! Keep busy, that is the key, and of course there is time!!! Good Luck
2006-09-12 14:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by hey_amt95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. It sucks and it hurts. But it wont do you any good to keep torturing yourself forever. Better snap out of it quick.
2006-09-12 18:20:26 · answer #5 · answered by mctorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting over him depends on how much you feel for him and what he means....If he is the love of your life, it is going to be really hard. But if he is just another guy....to hell with him and move on
2006-09-12 13:58:52 · answer #6 · answered by princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go out w/ someone else just for rebound
spend all the time you used to spend with him with a big ... big group of girl friensd and just laugh and talk it out... u will feel this for a while... but... it'll pass
i'll be thinking of you. good luck and i'm sorry to hear that.
2006-09-12 13:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by Kit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o yea it always hurts but comeon there so many people out there why a stay stuck on one
2006-09-12 13:57:08 · answer #8 · answered by thicknjuicybitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do fun activities
that distreact you
pretty soon you'll forget him and move on to a better boyfriend! think about it- he wasn't worth your time anyway
2006-09-12 13:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't get over him than your next soulmate won't get a chance to talk with you.
2006-09-12 13:56:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋