My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years. I love him so much.. and he loved me. This summer was great.. up until the last week. We have had our problems.. but they usually werent nothing serious.. we fought a bit about stupid things like work.. and then he tells me he wants to break up that he doesnt see us together in 10 years. We agreed to try and work things out. This was very sudden.. and it made me wonder why. I find out today, after he as unprotected sex with me, that in the last week he has been cheating on me. I had to pratically beat it out of him. He said he had sex with a girl at work twice, and he went up to see her the last weekend. He says he never meant to hurt me, that it just happened and that he's so sorry. But he doesn't know what he wants. I love him.. and I dont want to loose him. He says he will end things with this girl and stay with me.. But I'm so scared. How can i trust him again? We both have to get STI tests.. and Im so scared. What should I do?
2006-09-12 13:53:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I need him tho. I love him so much.. i cant leave him. I dont want to. I am willing to forgive him.. I just know it will be hard
2006-09-12 14:01:57 · update #1
Dump him. sex doesn't just happen. If he truly did not want to hurt you he would not have put you at risk for any kind of disease. He is telling you he wants to get out of a relationship but is trying to force you to end it. Take his message and dump him.
2006-09-12 13:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself credit about going to get and STD testing. Best of luck there.
As much as you love him and it will hurt MAJOR time, just end things with him. He may do it again, and how you come to trust him, you may not.
Just leave him and make him learn his lesson!
I been cheated on before, it's a different kind of cheating, but once they do it, it's almost for certain it will happen again.
Best of luck to you in finding a man who will be faithful to you!
2006-09-12 21:01:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him his space i dont know if youve got kids or not you sound like a dumb stupid kid break up have as much protected sex as possible other wise your gonna keep putting up with his crap he's gonna still hook up when the opportunity presents its self hell eventually hell kick you to the curb for someone younger and hotter and leaving you a bitter old biotch who can only get lucky with a couple of AA batteries good luck
2006-09-12 21:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on you once, he will do so again. You DON'T need him--you think you do but you don't...Dump him and find someone who CAN be faithful to you...
2006-09-12 21:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you talk in the pasttense, your bf is cheating. he's not worth it dump him now before you get more hurt. it's time to move on
2006-09-12 21:02:28 · answer #5 · answered by Scott G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him find a good man
2006-09-12 21:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by ghostdog506 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and go on with your life
2006-09-12 20:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋