i read some answer about virginity .. some guys prefer a virgin for religious or what ever reason. but what happen if she was raped would you still look at her as a virgin? and marry her?
If a girl knows how much his bf wants a virgin for a wife but she kept it for herself and say she is virgin would guys find out can a guy tell ?
does lla girl bleed if she is a virgin?
2006-09-12 13:49:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If you yourself were raped you need to tell someone as soon as possible.
Otherwise if you are just posing the question hypothetically, it's not a fair question to pose because you know that being forced to have sex against your will (rape) is not the same as choosing to have premarital sex.
Can guys tell? You can only tell during sex.
Bleeding? Yes, a small amount, not enough to stress about.
The best reason for not having premarital sex doesn't have anything to do with religion but instead the facts of what potential damage premarital sex could do to you. For starters, if you engage in premarital sex you are probably having sex with a guy who:
1. Doesn't love you and really only likes you for sex, once you stop having sex with him he will be through with you and that's not a good feelding.
2. Is inexperienced and therefore the sex won't be enjoyable for you.
3. Is uneducated on the risks of having sex and would be more likely to transmit an STD to you or get you pregnant.
The real question for girls should be why rush to have sex too young when there's nothing in it for them?
Try to ask the adult women you know if they wished they had sex at a younger age and I doubt any one of them would say yes.
2006-09-12 14:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by live2ride 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i was raped and my hubby still was with me . Rape isnt her fault. If he loves her then her being a virgin or not doesn't matter .. Not all virgins bleed everyone is different .
2006-09-13 19:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you it won't matter. In today's world there are very few women that are Virgins. For that matter most men aren't virgins either.
2006-09-12 21:37:59 · answer #3 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope they would. If not, they should really examine their (lack of) values.
Not all virgins bleed and there really is no way to tell. However, if you are going to get married, you should be honest to your spouse.
2006-09-12 21:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by emp04 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would... only if it's true!!!
And the story can be confirmed...
Lab test shows no STD, AIDS, and HEP C...
And that she did not enjoy being raped (some people did)...
2006-09-13 14:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by Jimmy the Cricket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not her fault she was raped
2006-09-12 21:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋