What can I do to help a relation in bed?
She doesn't want me to use protection and if i do she doesnt want to have sex.
What do I do?
2006-09-12 13:28:53 · 11 answers · asked by yankee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sex.
No protection.
9 months.
18 years of child support.
24 if the child goes to college.
Get the picture?
Keep it in your pants or pay!
2006-09-12 13:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have unprotected sex unless you've both been tested and are in a monogomous relationship, and she's on birth control (unless you want to be a daddy). Keep in mind however that there are std's that can go undetected like HPV, and herpes. These can be difficult to diagnose if there aren't any physical symptoms present.
Rethink this girl. Why would she require that you not be protected to go to bed with you? That seems odd.
2006-09-12 20:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by Megan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it's obvious you care about her alot if you insist on using protection. Maybe you guys aren't a good fit if she doesn't realize that you want her to have a good life without unwanted pregnancy and STDs (not that you have any....). Perhaps you should explain to her that it's only because you love her and want her to be able to carry out her plans for success, or maybe you all can compromise(spermicide, anyone?).
2006-09-12 20:37:34 · answer #3 · answered by horsecrazyinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow thats crazy.well if ya'll luv each other r have a committed relationship u should take her to the doctor and get her checked out ,so that way it's not that bad,but if not tell her using a condom is the safest thing!
2006-09-12 20:35:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....protection sometimes can be really uncomfort. why dont u guys go to docter and check both of you make sure no aids and after that...no protection..why not.
2006-09-12 20:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by shaffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe i suggest you dump her because if she doesn't want you to use protection it's because she probably has some kind of std and wants you to catch it or something so if you don't want one i suggest you kick her *** to the curb and good luck!
2006-09-12 20:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by la_reina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get checked for stds, if clean, bring up the topic of bc, while on bc, pull out
2006-09-12 20:40:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you use protection or you get rid of her.
2006-09-12 20:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure she is on the pill so she doesnt get pregnant... but make sure she doesnt have any stds too
2006-09-12 22:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes alergic to latex
2006-09-12 20:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by rsclflat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋