play a part as raping them or kidnapping them. I'm sort of thinking of it and it does sound good but I have no explaination of it. No, I have no sexual problems of any kind. No , I was never abused
2006-09-12 13:05:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually, it's pretty common -- and normal. Here are 2 articles that explain the psychology:
2006-09-12 13:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by Peggy M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell us that some guy may rape you. Hey, you're kinky. I like that. But be careful, make sure if you do it, you do it with some guy you like or someone you have an agreement with. Not some random person, if you do, get paperwork with dates, witnesses and what will happen and who will pay if a baby becomes of this or the guy has to use a condom. I want to explore this fantasy of yours a little more. Details, plz. :-) Why do you feel this way? Because you like thrills like rollercoasters or the adrenaline rush of not knowing who it is or what's going to happen. You need a guy (or girl) that's into dominatrix. You probalby like or like the idea of being handcuffed and bonded huh? If you're in los angeles, my guy friend can help you. there are some really good bondage clubs and fetish clubs, you might find what you're looking for but be careful girl. The thrill is not really worth waking up the next morning and either finding yourself naked and the possibility of death in the Angeles National Forest or some crazy guy who wants to cut up bodies. BE CAREFUL!!! Bring a friend with a two-way walkie talkie to someone else and a cell phone. You know, I don't like that idea, for myself especially if the guys dirty. YOu got to stop him and say, SLAP THIS ON! you pull out a Trojan!
2006-09-12 20:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by stranger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It turns me on knowing that I'm going to be roughed up and raped and I have complete control over it, so if I want it to stop then it will. And I don't have to tell him what to do, he just takes over.
I act out this fantasy all the time with my boyfriend.
and its not a sick thing, when I was a kid I almost got rapedand molested numerous times, but acting out this fantasy Is a way for me to get over it and know that I'm not a weak little woman and that I would have control over the situation and become stronger.
2006-09-12 20:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by Red Crayon Aristocrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think being taken by force has its eroticness ONLY IF im the one in control. Like lets say if my hubby and I are getting it on, I might want him to gently squeeze me neck or hold my arms down.
WE dont act out rape or kidnapping, theres nothing wrong if people want to do that but for me that would cross the line into something I dont even know what.
PLus its something different, its something that we pray in real life doesnt happen
2006-09-12 20:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the science behind it but I do know from research that rape fantasies are the # 1 fantasies among all women.
2006-09-12 20:08:47 · answer #5 · answered by kourtney j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like your fantasy, and I know there are some women that have the same fantasy as you do. I dated this lady and she liked to be in charge, and I enjoyed every minute of it.
Good Luck
2006-09-12 20:09:09 · answer #6 · answered by homermisc2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they are just needing that kind of excitement or thrill to get them in the mood for sex. thats just why i think but what do i know im just a psych major
2006-09-12 20:07:40 · answer #7 · answered by Jake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think having been abused has anything to do with having those types of fantasies.Make one up you are comfortable with and do that one with your partner and see what is all about!
2006-09-12 20:09:30 · answer #8 · answered by lisababyg ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because girls like to feel like guys have control and like when guys act like the dominant ones. It makes the girls feel like they are weak and need the guy to take control.
2006-09-12 20:07:58 · answer #9 · answered by grenworthshero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a control thing...that she wouldn't have to be responsible for what is happening and a bit of danger.
2006-09-12 20:08:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋