This is my problem: there are only a few guys in my school who would even consider going out with me, and they are total geeks-they are my friends and nice guys, but if you can relate to me, you know that they aren't gonna cut it on the relationship meter. Do you know why? because there are about the same number of guys at our school as girls, but the girls like to circulate ALL the guys. So there are perfectly normal, smart, pretty girls crying over the fact that they think they don't matter to anyone anymore-ehem-cause it just seems taht way. See, about 70% of the girls in my class are too popular to hang out with me(they'll talk to me, but im totally not in that loop) and any time ANY of them look at a guy, he is INSTANTLY too good for me. I've got some friends who go out with punk guys, but they are jerks, and they are even too popular for me now. I really like this one new guy-but one of the most popular girls in school also likes him. It's me against her-and im losing. help
2006-09-12 13:04:36 · 8 answers · asked by aerie anna 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay i feel like a jerk for insulting the geeky smart guys-but the thing is they are even awkward to talk to. this guy i really connect with-he's smart too, in all my classes. I want to know how i should try and get him-please.
2006-09-12 13:26:59 · update #1
Why should you care what other people think about you just go for him talk to him and get to know him better you never know he might be the right one for you. Your friends will come around when they find out that they are missing stuff that you did together before. Take a chance and see what happens never hurts to ask. You will either happy as a clam or go down in flames. I am going through the same thing with a girl at work and tomorrow I am just going to go up to her and ask her out and whatever happens happens.
2006-09-12 13:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by masterchiefcuda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what grade you are in. I do know that the day after graduation it does not matter who is cool. As you get older you want someone who can be there for you, provide for you and have your heart in there hands and you know that they will never hurt it or let anybody else harm it. I would recommend you find someone you can truly have a good time with, no matter if they are ugly,geeky,stupid,fat. Love is more important then anything in school. The day after you graduate you will not see 75% of the people in your class, unless you live in a small town. Go for love and realize that the geeks are the ones making all the money when you grow up and start having children of your own. Good luck.
2006-09-12 13:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop waiting for a guy to approach you. Go ask this new guy out. Oh and remember NO-body is too good for you. Have some confidence. People aren't popular and 'untouchable', they are just people like you. They aren't special.
2006-09-12 13:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by Just♥Brie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-07 05:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on the offensive... start asking guys out instead of waiting for them to come to you
Put up some competition and you're bound to find a cool guy to relate with
2006-09-12 13:07:56 · answer #5 · answered by benh316 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell me I'm not very smart JERK. My g.p.a is 4.0, which is the highest in case you didn't know. This is the internet ....who cares if the typing (not writing, stupid) isn't the best? So, go get a life. No wonder no guys approach you.
2006-09-13 10:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should send me an IM on yahoo messenger at sportsfanatic904 and we can talk about it...
2006-09-12 13:08:04 · answer #7 · answered by JSmith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her in the nuts
2006-09-12 13:09:20 · answer #8 · answered by chefspark420 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋