me and my girlfreind have something of an odd game. she ges out with her girlfreinds and good guy friends that have been for the most part just freinds or distant flings that didn't work, and from the begining we've had a don't ask don't tell policy. on any night, she could be cheating on me, or not. she may heve never. she may have often. for me, its pretty hot. she gets ready to go out, and it drives me wildly jealous, and whether i go out with my friends or end up staying in i go nuts over the speculation. then when she gets home, i try to piece together what happened from what she is wiling to tell me.
so, she could be just playing along with me, being faithful but having fun with it. but she could have had some fun too and i'd be none the wiser.
assuming she is your average girl, do you think she's ever caved in to temptation?
2006-09-12 13:02:48 · 11 answers · asked by w0t_b0t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What difference does it make? If you have an don't ask don't tell policy that you mutually agreed on, then you lost the right to know what she is up to when she's not with you. Chances are she's not fooling around, but then it's not your business. If you can't handle this, you need to move on.
2006-09-12 13:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by suebdoo518 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unlikey unless you are not fulfilling her needs at home. The question she should be asking is why do you need that mystery to turn you on. I wouldn't waste my time with it, I would play your game until a man came along who thought the game was disgusting and disrespectful. Then I would quit playing with you and go out with someone that worshipped me and didnt' need the thought of me with someone else to get turned on.
2006-09-12 20:07:40 · answer #2 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely, it has crossed her mind...She is an average girl...But in the end, if she really liked you or loved you(depending on how far in the relationship and how much you care for each other) then she probably didn't do it. Hope you find out the truth...Good luck
2006-09-12 20:07:03 · answer #3 · answered by stacey_marie_08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heellooooo, anybody home? Of course she has! You both have a dont ask dont tell policy and she goes out with girlfriends and past flings, you put 2 and 2 together. duh
2006-09-12 20:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by humorme! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bet your as$ she has. You could be with a normal, healthy woman, but you are with a s!ut that doesn't care about you at all.
2006-09-12 20:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want her going out with other guys then talk to her about it. I personally think its wrong for my girlfriend to go out with other guys even if they are supposedly just her friend. Talk to her about it and if she cares enough about you, then she won't go out with other guys unless your with her.
2006-09-12 20:18:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you would no the answer to that, I think you do, it turns you on to know shes with other men.
2006-09-12 20:06:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's probably just playing your silly game ... and from the sounds of it you should quit playing it ... it'll only lead to trouble and from the sounds of it, it already is ... your questioning her loyalty ... and that doesn't sound like trust at all.
2006-09-12 20:06:48 · answer #8 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your girlfriend sounds like a mindtrip, If that was me, I'd run as fast as I could.
2006-09-12 20:05:21 · answer #9 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a relationship like that and i didnt cheat..but if you really want to know just ask..
2006-09-12 20:07:40 · answer #10 · answered by chaoswantsangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋